My wife wants to get a boob job which I'm not convinced she needs nor do I desire. Should I let her?

Answer 1

Let her be, but just let her know that you loved her without the boob job and still do. You need to be supportive with whatever decision she makes.

Answer 2

If you don't want her to get it then i have to question her altierior motives for getting one. The only reason they get these done is so others can oggle over them. I don't think you want her going to other men because they liked her new boobs. Discurage her. Keep telling her not to mess with a perfect body like she has, one that you like. While it may be HER body but in marriage you become ONE and really what she/or you do to your body will affect each other as you work in tandem.

Answer 3

I wouldnt say should I allow her or let her that is the wrong way to approach a woman but if you are pleased with the way she looks now, explain to her she is perfect to you the way she is, and that plastic surgery is painful, she will be very sore, and misrable, when it's done she will have large bruises where the implants are placed, and if she is doing this for you to love her body it is absolutly not nessasary you are turned on by her the way she is right now.

Answer 4

i think its a self esteem issue that she got. u need to talk wiz her. u must understand that u have to be gentle about it, cuz she insecure n seems to want to change her physical appearances cuz of sum emotional issues within her, i mean why her boobs n not other body parts? why now? if u catch ma drift..

its an issue that incorporates u. u gotta make her feel whole, complete, adequate n desirable as she is. she may find security in that, n decide not to. maybe proffessional help?

its sad wen pple go all the way to fix themselves up- wat the hell is the point? NOBODY is perfect, inside n out!

Answer 5

Talk it over again with her. Does she feel you don't love her? or something of that sort. Will she be healthy after that or she will keep updating the boob. I have a friend, that is in this situation. Not fantastic. After the update, she comes back depressed. that's an whole life process

Answer 6

ur r the reason she want a boob job u may hav said something made here feell less women are very sensitive when it come to their bodies so wot may hav said as a joke or passing comment about another chic boobs u saw on tv or on the street might hav triggered the whole thing. talk to her

Answer 7

NO, tell her you think she is perfect just the way she is. All women fuss about something they want to change about themselves. I wanted a boob job, but my hubby loves them the way they are, so why do I care what anyone else thinks of them? there his toys!

Answer 8

yes you should talk to her about how you feel and that you love her how she is. But you need to understand why she needs this and she needs to be honest when she answers you. the decision will be made by her with or without consent of her husband if you deal with it in the wrong way.

Answer 9

It's her choice but if you don't want her too than let her know that. Let her know how dangerous it could be and that you don't want to lose her. Let her know how important she is to you and how it is not just physical. If that doesn't work than you might just have to live with bigger boobs.

Answer 10

Well, since it's not your body and it's hers...YES if you can afford it. She should be able to do what she wants with her body but she needs to respect your feelings about it. If she still wants it after she's heard your feelings about it then she should be able to do it. You don't own her just because you are married to her.