do you have any idea to encourage me become more confidently?
2006-07-23 23:00:48 · 16 answers · asked by Dark Angel 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Find the fear in you that discourages you to be confident, and try to understand why that fear happened. After thorough understanding and analysis of your fear, you will realise that is not that bad after all. Anyway, to be confident you must prepare to take the risk. Always believe in your own capabilities, don't let negative minded people take away your courage to be confident. Think positive always!
2006-07-23 23:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by dranagar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was like you about a year back - still am a lil.
Getting a job gave me tons of confidence - no idea how it just did.
You could also join in with school stuff like a play and be an extra that will help you build your confidence up.
Also why are you not confident? Image? - If your friends are happy with your image who cares what the rest of the world says.
2006-07-23 23:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by djw008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must try to convince yourself to convince yourself.
This happens cuz' you maybe are currently facing lack of self-esteem.
If u do not have the confidence on doing something, don't ever try to attempt to continue cuz' this wud lead a guilty feeling inside yourself after doing it....maybe you will feel like all your doings were not your best enough...so better not to let it happen.
It requires a lot of mental exercise in order for you to become confident.
Even for myself, I also felt like myself is not qualified to do anything....cuz' I'm just worried if anyone says something bad about it....and as for that, I lack confident on myself...and u know what happened?
It seems that I felt like myself is running away from me..Leaving me alone here...still surviving....without any wings to support me to fly high above the blue sky....
Do not be like me....You must always tell yourself that you can always do whatever you wanna do. You must always convince yourself in anything you want to do....and complimenting ur inner self also can build self-confidence as the result. Don't compliment urself in front of the others...just 4 urself...alone...
Always have faith on yourself....and you will get ur confidence back....
Trust me! :)
2006-07-23 23:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by nickris.user_1.4.6.8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL-------STOP SAYING THAT UR NOT CONFIDENT
...........Seriously, Jus sayin that Destroys UR Confidence........
Secondly--------Even if Ur NOT Confident......Try 2 PRETEND Ur confident.......Slowly it WILL become a Natural Part of U..........Hey, By the Way That's what Celebrities Do.....Pretend 2 be Confident......N Rest Ur Mind Will Take Care............Njoy!!!!
2006-07-23 23:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start A Personal Relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. Nah I'm just kiddin thats BS, maybe take some medication
2006-07-23 23:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by ScottyDoesntKnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
developing confidence is not a big aspect,start communication with more n more ppl...when u r talking to someone just look at his/her eyes n talk,stand in front of mirror n talk to yourself,catch ur weak points n improve them,always keep one thing in your mind that in this world u will often find many person which always try to make u feel humiliating(its my personal exp.)but at that time its only ur confidence which can shut their mouth.
2006-07-23 23:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweet jeeya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find somebody you like and admire and try to make them happy.
It doesn't take a lot of confidence to spend your time trying to make someone else feel good about herself.
When you see how good you are at making someone else feel good about herself, your own confidence will begin to grow.
2006-07-23 23:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by insincere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop feeling that ur not confident.believe in urself and in ur abilities.sort out ur problems with ur friends.tr is no problem that friends cant solve.ok and go on in ur life smiling and if u r not at all confident as sm1 else said pretend all right?best of luck.
2006-07-23 23:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Awsome Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell yourself a secrets :)
Now seriously :
- Start to think about oponents as a people that you shall not trust.
Well - do bot overburn it ... but it will be a realy nice start if u success with :)
2006-07-23 23:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sun Sonic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I have really a proven way to increase ur confidence.
For this you just send an email directly to my email address,
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2006-07-23 23:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by James B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋