Every one of my friends is divorced. I'm the only one of the bunch still married and everytime we get together I leave when it's time to leave. They call me p**sy whipped. I tell them it's respect for my wife. Ladies, would it bother you if your husband had these types of friends but still showed commitment to you over his friends. It's no wonder their divorced and I'm still HAPPILY married to the most remarkable woman I've ever met. Melissa if you're reading this, yes sweetheart, I mean every word of it.
2006-07-23 22:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by wudbiser 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't pick a best answer. They're all helpfull. Except for 3 cards answer, you sound like my friends bro, but that's ok. Thanks for your opinion.
2006-07-24 02:23:55 · update #1
Well I think you can keep your friends but maybe you and your wife can find friends that you both enjoy and have more in common like marriage, to me this sounds as if they are jealous that you have a special love in your life and they don't. I admire that you are commited so much, but I know everyone has a weak moment so with that said, I would stay in touch with old friends but look for friends that are happy that you are Happy, Good Luck!
2006-07-23 23:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by connie c 2 · 11⤊ 2⤋
No. You are not whipped. My dad was the most masculine man I've ever met, and he never caroused with his friends in my parents' 39 years of marriage. And they were married very young. You're right that it's no wonder they are divorced (although there are many reasons for divorce; this is just one). You just continue to stand firm in how you feel about your life. If you are happily married, then go ahead and flaunt it! At some point, when these other men meet someone else, they will be coming to you for advice. Your wife is a lucky woman!
2006-07-23 23:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats very sweet! You are a good man and right to put your wife first. They call you a pussy because they are jealous of what you have. Dont let them ruin you too! They are divorced for a reason. And would it bother me if my husbands friends were all divorced?? Maybe a little but if it does bother your wife I can understand why she feels that way. Just dont let them influence you. I am afraid because my man is easily influenced and his friends are the kinds of guys who buy hookers on the weekends for fun.
2006-07-23 22:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 21:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you are whipped all ways known to man. You need to cough and let your nuts drop. It sounds to me like you and your old lady have some insecurity or maturity issues. It has nothing to do with your friends being divorsed. It has to do with you being a wuss. And, if your old lady wasn't insecure, she wouldn't want you to look like a wuss in front of your friends
2006-07-23 22:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it!! Right now! Do not listen to them, they just want you to join their team. and I am sure that you really don't want that. If you know what you have, and I am sure that you do, make sure that you keep it!! Do not lose it. It would bother me if I knew that my man's friends were saying the things they are trying to poison your mind with. Be good, true, faithful, and remember the commitment you made.
2006-07-23 23:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by jonzmom1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're doing the right thing by respecting her wishes. She should have no problem with it as long as you can compromise. As long as you don't allow their negative attributes to have any influence over you, I think you'll be just fine. And kudos for mentioning your wife.
2006-07-23 22:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by LoVeLy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are obviously jealous of your happy marriage, while theres domed! I think you should stay away from them, after all who you run with is who you become!
2006-07-23 22:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch them or tell yor wife that you would like to stay longer because of this because you have no problem expressing it on here where your wife might be
2006-07-23 22:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by geelongnick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if you can't stick with the taunting... they are no friends at all...
2006-07-23 22:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Shalako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋