2006-07-23 22:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by mostafa h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Calm down. Think, "Is this a battle you want to pick with her?" if so, then talk with her about it. Hug her as you ask her to please listen to something that bothers you and when you talk with her continue to hug and tell her you seriously need to talk about it.
She may not like what you have to say but if you are TACTFUL and considerate of her feelings as you say what bothers you with when you do this "I feel" or what you did/said "made me feel"...just letting her know that you have something to say and asking her what BOTH of you can do to try to alleviate hurt feelings like yours and hers in the FUTURE, well, if she's mature, she will LOVE you more for it.
Again use the affection, as it really helps soften the blow of words that may be blunt.
2006-07-23 22:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking it out is the best option. However the Question is " If she makes me angry" Many Psychiatrist will tell you talking to someone while you are angry isn't the best idea.
The best idea is to take a min in some circumstance a few hours. Take what ever time you need to focus your questions and arguments. Remember an angry argument only fuels it's self not resolution.
Talking while anger is an argument, talking while calmer and collected is a discussion. Figure out what really makes you mad about her. " Express " (don't accuse) to her how they make you feel. Then ask her What she feels " she can do" do alleviate the problem. Then work on a solution that includes you playing your part as well.
2006-07-24 05:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by x0zx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...everyone gets angry eventually.
It depends on WHAT she is doing that makes you angry.
Is it justified? Probably not.
Sounds like you need a course in anger management.
It's quite normal for couples to get angry at one another, but how far you carry it, is what can be dangerous.
2006-07-24 19:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey o you know what PMS is? Do you know how hardis it to monthly go through it? And by the way there 's also a pre- pre-PMS and a post- post MS... thjat's what makes us angry a whole month.. and the next month will start again...oh geez you should feel that...So there's nothing to do about... bear with her...
2006-07-24 05:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is being unreasonable then just walk away and leave her alone until she calms down. Don't stick around and let things get out of control and before you do something you might regret later on.
2006-07-24 05:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by haterade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 1 coool offf!!! lest u say sumthn u regret, 2. just smile it off and continue living life
2006-07-24 05:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Semere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing rrly because she's going to piss you off you just have to learn to deal with it or break up with her but if you rrly love her then you might want to try working it out with her instead of just ignoring her when you get pissed off.
2006-07-24 05:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by TNQE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to know how to deal with it talk it out
2006-07-24 05:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch sports
2006-07-24 05:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rayon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After Shagging then leave her
2006-07-24 05:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋