At times I expect my wife to start first ... but she does not .. out of 100 times may be once or twice she takes charge first .. I thought I will provoke her by using some provocative perfume etc .. but still she does not .. I do not want to tell her openly u start first .. But I do not show signs to do so . but still she does not do ..Can you give me tips please ..
2006-07-23 21:47:20 · 6 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont know if this is the case with your wife but we (women) have hormons that change weekly.
i sometimes feel in the mood when i can clearly see that my husband is sooo tired.for fear of regection. i dont know if she feels secure about herself but on some days i feel like the most un-actractive woman in the world. but (my husband) makes sure he tells me everyday how he thinks im beautful. do you do this for your wife?maybe if you give her th mental love, she may be a little more open. (even if you think ,and know she has nothing to be insecure over.) even a beauty queen likes to be told how sexy they are.you have to condition this daily....good luck!!!
2006-07-24 01:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by rosie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women prefer that the man take first initiative. I myself prefer an aggressive male. The more aggressive he is the more aggressive I'm going to be. I wouldn't expect her to initiate it that much though, because many women do not feel it's their duty to do so. Feel free to talk to her about the way you feel, but make sure to listen to what she has to say. Here's another tip. The better time she has the more likely she's going to be to initiate the next time.
2006-07-24 05:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by ascarletccsn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not suggest that you will toss the coin everyday to decide? That way you might win 50 percent of the time.
But do remember to send the umpire out before you open the innings!
2006-07-24 07:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Neeraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever fill the urge first can start the show.
2006-07-24 05:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by mekanical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever feels in the mood if you have a good relationship
2006-07-24 06:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is afraid of rejection...talk to her.
2006-07-24 04:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋