iam 23 but still i never had sex but iam full potency (i can hold up to 45 min) while iam mastrubating but i fear iam wasting my energy by this and one day when i get married i would become impotency
2006-07-23 21:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by love every one 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I have to say that I respect someone that is still a virgin. It is not a problem at all, my boyfriend was a virgin until he was 22 and I give him much respect for that. not many people can do that these days. WHen it comes to masturbation, it is a completely normal thing and is healthy, it lets you explore without worrying about diseases and pregnancy. stay strong. when you do get married the women will respect you much more
2006-07-23 21:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Ignore all the religious wing-nuts who tell you that you should have sex with a woman in the biblical way. You shouldn't have sex until you are ready. Period. It's much better for you to masturbate than to have sex with a girl and get her pregnant.
No matter how much you masturbate, you will not make yourself impotent. Your testicles will produce sperm well into your eighties, and your plumbing will still work if your circulatory system stays healthy. Repeat--you will not make yourself impotent. Masturbation does not waste your energy. You will not go crazy, grow hair on your palm, or become a homosexual.
I congratulate you on being a virgin. You have not exposed yourself to any diseases, you have not fathered any unwanted children, and you have not caved in to peer pressure. That's a big deal nowadays. Be proud of who you are and the choices you've made.
2006-07-24 04:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choke that chicken till your hearts content. Just make sure that you wrap it up before you take the plunge with the real deal. By the way, there's no problem in being a virgin @ 23.
2006-07-24 04:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by haterade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, it is not a problem to be a virgin :)
In fact, many still believe in virginity till they get married:)
I guess masturbating is just a way for you to unleash your build up sexual energy.
Well, there is no scientific proof that lots of masturbation can lead to impotency. Don't worry about that, ok?
2006-07-24 05:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fears are right. masturbating 45 mins daily energy waste screws up the mind, u have to fantasize diff things girls animals and fairies. a safer way is to improvise a nice dummy pillow and penetrate and do the rubbing into it, instead of by hand. But no fears of impotency brer.
2006-07-24 04:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am still a virgin and i am male/29 , virginity is not a problem , it is a part of ur own life , choose when ever u want to loose it. it is not a problem if u think u r ok with it.
yes it is problem if u think ur sex starved.
2006-07-24 04:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by DR H BHATT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait til you are married. Be sure to marry the right one. Keep her as long as possible and enjoy a long happy home life.
Listen to venus above. she knows what she is talking about!
;-D Hang in there!
2006-07-24 04:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by China Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't feel bad at all. your virginity is a special gift that only you can give someone. Don't be ashamed of it at all. only you will know when you are ready, and i can only say that it is very important to give it to someone who truley is yours. I still speak to the man who has mine, and he is a very dear friend in my life still to this day. There are alot of people who can't even remember the name of the person they lost their virginity to. More power to you babe
2006-07-24 04:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its awesome that your still a virgin. you should save your self for marriage. I am 22 and my fiance is 26 and we are both saving ourselfs for marriage. If you wait for marraige it will be totally worth the wait.
2006-07-24 04:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by flyguy03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you stay a virgin too long, there is possibility of becoming homosexual. is better you find a girlfriend that can satisfy you in the natural, and biblical way.
2006-07-24 04:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋