OK, I'm 16 but I have a crush on a 13 yr old? Is this too big of an age gap? She's going to be in 8th grade and I'll be a senior in high school. Honest Opinions please.
2006-07-23 21:20:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I plan on leaving town after I graduate too
2006-07-23 21:26:25 · update #1
my honest opinion is that the age gap might feel big just for now, coz ure both still young ... if you was 23 and she was 20 im more then sure you wont be asking this question, you know wot i mean?
just be close friends, get to know each other, hang out and have fun ... keep it a simple boy n gurl relationship, don't take things to far out, you both still young and since you is older u might already have started thinking about sex ... so if i was you i would keep it really basic you know ... remember she's only 13 and you just 16 .... don't get to much involved as there's a time and place for everything (wink) ...
sorry if i sound boring .... i just wish you fun and many happy days but keep it real okay (don't over do it ... as u might regret it ... wink)
2006-07-23 21:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by sue f 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
well if u will be leaving town, i wouldn't, but as 4 the age gap, it dont really matter, but she is only13, so u have to think this way, you can get in the **** if you sleep with her, you will end up hurting her when you leave town, when i was 13, i went with a man who was 26, this is the truth, but he was a nice man, no sex though. but when he went away, i was hurt for a long time, as at that age, i thought i was in love lol sounds funny now hey, yeah i no, but just think of the way she would feel if you were going anyway, and what if u were her, and only 13, and she left town, it really would hurt. some young ones may feel like hurting their self, when a loved one goes, but hey, its up to you, if you do it just take it really slow ok, you would end up feeling bad if you didn't, trust me.
2006-07-24 04:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine. Age doesn't matter. If she's as mature as a 16 year old, or you're as mature as a 13 year old, then go for it. Society might look down on it, but that hasn't stopped a lot of people.
2006-07-24 04:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know maybe you can wait till she is 18 or something then it wont seem so weird but im 14 and i like this guy that is 17 and he likes me i think lol but i don't think anything is wrong just see how she will become like after high school maybe she might change once she is socialized in high school. (you are only 3 years apart once you guys are older it wont really matter)
2006-07-24 04:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bball 33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im nineteen and the first guy I had a huge crush on when I was 14, he was 12......Its puppy love.....but yeah... I think three years is a bigger gap then 2 years....but I dunno...in the end its up to you...
2006-07-24 04:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Halfway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years seems like a long time when your in your teenage years. There are six years difference between my wife and I. She was 18 and I was 24 when we started dating.
2006-07-24 04:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it might seem a very big gap as long as you are in school but once she comes high school you wont feel the gap much . the others might comment but dont take it seriously and you can be happy. there are maany cases like that with realbig age gaps so dont care. just go ahead and se wat happens.
2006-07-24 04:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by manini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its perfect age gap but she is 2 small for having an affair
2006-07-24 04:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a big problem. My gf was 5 years younger than me.
2006-07-24 04:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by cong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only untill she's 18, It will seem like a huge age difference...
2006-07-24 04:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by La_La_Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋