to be cool? to show off to their mates?????
2006-07-23 21:13:52 · 26 answers · asked by zaazpa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To overcompensate for the fact that they are weak and pathetic themselves. Bullies get a high off of pushing people around and insulting them because it makes them feel strong or feel like people look up to them.
2006-07-23 21:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by The anti-emo 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Most bullies are kids who have a major identity problem. They feel that in order to make a mark for themselves in life they need to hold a position of power. At school and college this is not easy to do - so they decide to enforce their will on other - mostly quieter people in order to obtain the power they seek.
When adults do this they will almost always end up in correctional institutions and when goverment leaders behave like this they usually end up saying hello to a UN invasion force.
Bullies need to learn a little more about themselves and face their problems of insecurity - seek help. They should try making friends instead of making subjects. They need to chill out.
If they wont....
I would suggest that the victims take martial arts classes since a good kick in the bollocks is the everyday equivalent of the UN task force.
2006-07-24 04:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do this so that they will feel that they are the best or atleast better than the others because they have nothing in themselves and so they try to be cool and do showoff.
I really hate it.They should be given such a severe punishment that they should realize thay they r nothing but failures.
2006-07-24 04:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Scoob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes out of a deep feeling of insecurity and powerlessness. Bullies often have a history of being abused or neglected. Their behaviour is a subconscious attempt to regain a sense of power in their lives.
2006-07-24 04:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Joshua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunn people bully others because on the inside they feel like losers. And they`ll do anything to make themselves feel a little bit cooler, or better about themselves. Don't even sweat them, they can't affect you anymore than you let them.
2006-07-24 04:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate 'em and have gotten into many fights sticking my noise in when i seen a bully picking on someone
and will still take up for anyone getting picked on ,90 percent time they will back down and the other 10 percent got the hell beat out of them
2006-07-24 04:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to establish a sense of superiority...it stems from a low self-esteem.
Friends of a bully are usually friends out of fear.
And it does hurt...and it's very uncool.
2006-07-24 04:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People bully others for attention...They want to front as if everything is alright, when inside, they are hurting; they take their anger out on others to hide their true feelings....
2006-07-24 04:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make the bully feel bad in fact quite the opposite it probably makes them feel good.
2006-07-24 04:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Alistair B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to admit it and i mean i REALLY hate to admit it but i try not to bully ppl but i do it any way and i sometimes do it without thinking and i think its because im kinda suffering from depression and yah sometimes ppl do it to impress their friends or to look cool.
2006-07-24 04:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by notquiet_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋