We've been at BBQ's , cocktail parties , holiday parties, weddings. And I will get cornered in the kitchen, hallway, let's not 4get the restroom. No matter what my husband refuses to believe me or thinks I'm the drunk one.
2006-07-23 21:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by LM Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I don't attend some of the parties w/ him he takes it personally. I try to stay as close as I can to him. But all it takes is a trip to the restroom. I think his friends are a bunch losers to do this to him. And who's to say "Is he doing the same behind my back?"
2006-07-23 21:26:46 · update #1
To say I'm the drunk one must be a GUY thing ! Try getting hit on 3x while wearing your wedding dress !!!!
2006-07-23 21:49:21 · update #2
if your husband does'nt trust you then i guess,maybe you have'nt given him any such reasons to do so.........
if you are not at wrong,you need to have a word about this with hi seriously........tell him all that has been happening and if he still does'nt believe stop attending the parties and i guess then you also need to re think about your marriage,b/c no relationship can work without Trust,its very imp.....
2006-07-23 21:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the drunk one. It is because you are drunk and you act like a tease that everyone is hitting on you. I don't mean to be judgemental but you are the type of girl I always go after. You have a great husband, he is probably in the military or something like that. You are young and you hang out with a lot of cool friends. Everyone is about the drinking and "innocent" flirting. Hahaha You attracted the attention then you want him to know about it so you tell him his friends were hitting on you. If you were a good wife you would simply reject his friends advances, but instead you need for him to know about it. It's no big thing. A lot of women act this way. It is so common that I think it is just an instinctual thing with us. Anyway, the way you act prior to the encounter leads up to the advances by his friends. You should check yourself.
2006-07-24 04:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geesh......don't leave your husbands side.
Stop goiing to these events.
Change the way you dress
never put yourself in a place where other people arn't around.
Also.....don't drink then your husband can't say you are drunk.
And why do you even tell him about it. The guys are most likely drunk and probably don't even remember hitting on you.
If this is such a big deal, bring a way to tape these things.
Never look the guys in the eyes.
2006-07-24 04:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY thing that makes sense with your story would be you are a flirt, and probably cross the line of appropriateness with comments to his friends. All your flirting comments, or sexual conversations/jokes probably let people think you are interested in more.
I mean seriously...what kind of friends do that at a wedding? Give me a break. Obviously they THINK you are receptive to it. Either you encourage it, or you let it slide.
Time to check your own attitude.
2006-07-24 12:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is either in denial or he wants to share you with his friend. Get a restraining order...if your hubby doesn't put an end to it....(have a recorder in your pocket and record the verbal advances- you gotta have some kind of proof....record even your conversations with your husband about it...so later he doesn't say you never said anything)
2006-07-24 04:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way is to knee this guy where it hurts the most. I cannot believe that people on here are pointing fingers at you.
If your husband does not want to confront his friend, then you should refuse to go to parties with him.
A sure fire way is to get totally pissed off and storm away from the guy and loudly tell him to back off, preferably within other people's earshot.
2006-07-24 04:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by blah_in_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time for you to give this guy a slap across his face and get your husbands attention by doing so and teach this jerk a lesson in front of your husband and dont be a whimp about it
2006-07-24 04:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by dugbug63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guys hitting on you are married themselfs try telling thier wives , that should stur things up a bit , if they are single or dating tell thier gf's or record it as suggested then play it for your husband.
2006-07-24 10:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by joewyble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont think he beleaves you, let your husband tell him to tell his friend to back off. It could even mess up there friendship. Hope that this has helped you.
2006-07-24 04:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe the hubby either doesn't really care about the friend hitting on you... or he doesn't want to face the truth, because then it would give him something unpleasant to think about... or to deal with.
2006-07-24 04:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋