I hang around with a group of people, and some of them seem to treat me like I am lower than them and they can boss me around and tell me what to do.
They always seem to criticise how I look, or things I say, and I wouldn't dare say some of the things they say to me to them. God they would hit me if I did!
I don’t know what to do for the best, coz I feel so down in the dumps at the moment!
Hope people can help me to make the right choice.
Thanks x
2006-07-23 20:51:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dump these 'Friends' of yours and find some real friends who appreciate you for who YOU are, you don't have to be made to feel down in the dumps, you deserve to be happy around your friends, these people are obviously too far up their own ar*ses.
2006-07-23 20:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 5 · 14⤊ 2⤋
argh. Its a no win situation, I was in a similar problem myself and it was absolutely horrible, as a matter of fact I left my old school and went to a different college as a result of it, I think you've already realised these are no friends of yours, the problem is, can you leave the group and find a new one? Didn't think so, it's never that simple is it? Well im afraid you're probably going to have to find some new friends because would you really deep down think of them as nice people if they changed, or would you be permanently scarred with what they've said to you in the past?
When in my final year at high school my friends (surprisingly enough not my enemies) made it so it was impossible to attend the prom, I refused to have my parents present at standdown. I just wanted to leave. I haven't even picked up my results from a year ago. If this is in any way similar to your situation, then i really advise you make some changes, changes are always hard and scary, but you jjust have to do it. If it makes you feel better Im going to a party tonight with my new better friends who wont think itl be the same without me, now thats a touching thought.
Good luck,
Kris
2006-07-23 21:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by englishkeymaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong crowd, find new ones who are same level as you.Instead of standing around wasting time, take some sports activities. This way you play more and less talk, when the time comes to talk you can make constructive contributions about sports you in and from there you build your confidence.
2006-07-23 21:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult, but... quit the group. There are various ways (including forcing a split in the group - like those who like you and those who don't), but the gist is the same, those people are not your friends. Any person deserves the friendship of people who respect him and value him, and so feel free to find your peers, those you will feel comfortable with.
2006-07-23 20:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are immature, low self esteem pricks!They treat you like that, because they are insecure about their looks, etc OR they treat you like that because they are jealous of you. You sound like a nice guy, come on, dust off your shoulders and move on.You dont need friends like that. They will bring you down to their level and you will end up having no confidence in yourself. Surround yourself with people that make you laugh and people that respect you.
2006-07-23 21:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever thought that maybe they're not really ur friends??
friends don't do that.. except ur part of the masochist sadist group of friends.. hehehe
try sticking up for yourself!! it happens because ur letting them.. and try looking for better friends.. they only get to be mean to u coz u let them.. they feel better whenever they make u feel worse.. what's wrong with being alone for a while rather than haging out with friends like that?
me, i had friends like that but i always stick up for myself.. and also there were times when i became a loner.. but i wasn't unhappy.. i was actually happier.. then eventually i met better friends..
2006-07-23 21:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're hanging around with the wrong people. Tell them to get lost and try and find a decent mate/mates to hang around with. Good luck
2006-07-23 20:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by I know nothing! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep some distance away from such "friends". Even u treat them nice, they wont help you in return.
2006-07-23 20:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by steven kho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are clearly not your friends - ditch them
2006-07-23 21:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a way from them
2006-07-23 22:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by D T P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋