I mean, wouldnt that create more mess/heartache/problems.
2006-07-23 20:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by lane 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
the question shouldn't be if we need to...
the right one is the one that we can last with..
if things are not ok with the current one.. then most likely the relationship will end then eventually u'll find a new one.. but switching partners on purpose just for finding the right is just wrong.... who knows.. u just passed ur right one coz u weren't seeing things the right way..
don't go rush things.. sometimes things are best when u take it slow.. then u'll see.. u're mr. right now/ ms right now.. will turn out to be ur very own. MR. RIGHT / MS. RIGHT!
2006-07-23 20:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we don't need to switch partners. We should take whatever randomly happens first and shut up or go to hell forever.
On the other hand if the right one arrives late for the party, should we just say "No way! This wrong one is good enough for me."?
And on still another hand (for those blessed with more than two hands), what if the whole idea of there being a "right" one is no more than misinformed supposition? What if there are almost unlimited possibilities of interaction, some better than others?
Naw! The first thought is best. The fact that you were attracted to someone before you really knew what it would be like to be with them should be final and irrevocable. That would make me feel so secure.
2006-07-23 21:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2006-07-23 20:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking bout that and I think that it really depends on what you feel, If it feels he/she is right one then thats it. I guess if your in a relationship and you feel that maybe he isn't the one then try to go out with others because if you feel that way then it means you feel that he is not the one yet. But there are consequences once you break up you might not go back together when you feel you made a mistake and wants to go back to him/her
2006-07-23 20:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a lucky few find the perfect mate the first time. You will be waiting forever if you hold out for perfection. Try, and if you dont succeed, try again
2006-07-26 02:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean like swapping group sex? Or do you mean finding a lifemate? This quesiton needs more "polishing" before you get an answer you can use- good luck
2006-07-23 20:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to switch partners after each dance.
2006-07-23 20:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...sometimes you just know someone is the right one even if he/she is the first person you've ever dated. if you really were in love with someone, you wouldnt need other people to make you realize it.
2006-07-23 20:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; that is a relatively new thing in our morally loose culture.
2006-07-23 20:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switching is not compulsory.
2006-07-23 20:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by pieter U3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋