If you're a guy and you've become too curious, will you surely become gay after you've experimented with a guy

Question

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I've never heard of any story about a guy who has experimented and then not become gay...Just wondering. Tell me if you know someone who didn't become gay.

Answer 1

I have a friend that experimented and is now in a happy relationship with a girl.

Answer 2

I was an adult in the 1970s (before HIV and AIDS appeared), and I personally knew several men who experimented with homosexuality and remained straight. There was a lot of sexual experimentation in the 1970s, and lots of straight people played around with homosexual experiences just to say that they had checked it out. But when you're straight, another man's body just isn't much of a turn-on. You start missing the boobs and vagina pretty quickly.

One homosexual experience isn't going to change a straight guy, just like one night with a woman isn't going to change a gay guy.

Think about it for a second. Most men follow their penises. If homosexual experiences were that attractive and satisfying for straights, then most men would just go ahead and sign up with the gay team. It would be the path of least resistance. At the very least, it would certainly make it a whole lot easier to find partners for sex. :-)

But since most men continue to remain straight (even when offered easy access to gay sex), one has to assume that for most men the female body has its own special attractions and is worth the extra patience and effort that's required. :-)

Answer 3

Only you have the answer to this question. If the experience is unpleasant, then apparently you are not gay, at least not yet. I don't believe any kind of experimentation like this is irreversible. It is unlikely that "straights" would like to talk about any gay experimentation.

It is well known that jails are full of homosexual behaviour, but that upon being released from prison, many ex-prisoners return to heterosexual behaviour.

Answer 4

Homosexuality is decided by both genetic and environment. Environmental influences are varied, but when a guy says he's curious, it's because he's inbetween deciding whether he's gay or not for whatever reasons. As with any decision, he can say yes or no once he's tried it. Curiosity doesn't mean anything until someone decides for themselves whether they're gay or not.

Answer 5

Well, just you thinking about it hypothetically already tells me that you are gay or bi, or just confused and hasn't come out of the closet yet. Good luck, have a happy life.

Answer 6

No....you won't become gay.....if your gay, you have been gay since birth....that is just the way it is. If you want to try it out....try it out!! And if you don't like it....you don't like it....but if you like....then you like it...it's no big deal. I support you in whatever you want to do...it's your life!