Some men stay, some men go. But wouldnt they all stay if they love you?
2006-07-23 20:20:33 · 14 answers · asked by lane 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I have thoughts on this matter. But they are so lengthy, I could not fit them on here. Most people would not agree with them, because it would force them to accept that we are infallible. We still act on impulses that stem from our instinct. It would suggest that Men and Women do still have animal in them. People do not like to think like this. Let's just say BOYS/GIRLS (regardless of their age) can run away. Men/Women will usually find a way to work it out.
2006-07-23 20:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men, if not raised right by their parents, can be pigs. If a boy does not have a decent father figure to look up to, he ends up being angry at the women in his life. And he does have many women in his life: teachers, coaches, principals, classmates. This is especially true for boys who grow up with no father in the house. They resent women because it seems like they control the world. And he's not completely wrong. Men have abandoned their roll as family head. Most men no longer feel that they should protect the women in their lives.
A man who has been raised right (like in my house with my wonderful husband) knows that women are to be cared for and not abused. A boy who has grown up in a household where there is a decent father figure does not have sex with a girl in his high school class. And a girl who grows up in a home with a father who loves and cherishes her will know when a boy is disrespecting her.
2006-07-23 20:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats bc the world is messed up and it started w/ men and didnt get better. Yeah women do the same, but less often than men. Or it could be they r new and dont know what love really is. Most men just want sex, plain and simple.
2006-07-23 20:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by ksblue594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men say they love a woman when they don't so that the woman will STOP nagging them to say it.
Think about it, how many relationships does the women fall in love with the idea of falling in love? She pressures her man to say it in 1 way or another, so guys say it so she shuts the hell up once in a while. Sometimes they don't mean it, but it doesn't matter, as long as she shuts her yap, that's what's really important.
2006-07-23 20:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lane, is not unusual for a man to love or say he is in love and then become bored or get turned off the deeper he gets to know his girlfriend/ wife. Otherwise, we would have absolute monogamy like swans, i.e. meet and mate for life. But humans are just not like that. Of course, women are just as capable of becoming bored and leaving their boyfriends, especially if they have somebody more attractive to go to.
If you consult John Gray's "Mars and Venus on a Date", he will introduce you to the various stages of romance and why it is that both men and women switch partners before finding their "soul mates" or marital partners.
2006-07-23 20:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by hellbent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoz men are the most confused lot when it comes to emotions & feelings. they stay away from making a commitment as they are emotionally weak...... lucky are the ones who get commited men...
2006-07-23 20:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Love touches us for one time, but it lasts for a lifetime*
its mystical how fate sprinkles its magic out of the blue..
things happen when u least expect them to...or when some thoughts haf never crossed ur mind before...
+ Sometimes love can be magical..but magic can be an illusion +
2006-07-23 21:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women say they love you and yet leave you??
2006-07-23 20:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just say that they love u just to say it because they want to get in ur pants but there are some guys that actually mean it
2006-07-23 20:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do the same thing.
2006-07-23 20:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋