I found my wife in my bed room with another man closing the main door.As soon as I entered they pretend as if nothing happened but I could find the man in frustration asking me irrelevant questions like why my stomack becomes this big and so on.Wife coolly went out of the room.The man was Just petting on his Pants zip when I entered into the room.
2006-07-23 20:16:38 · 11 answers · asked by TRS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GET A DIVORCE! YOU SHE SHOULDN'T BE IN A ROOM WITH ANOTHER MAN WITH A DOOR CLOSED EVEN IF YOU TRUST THE GUY.
2006-07-23 20:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by me 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take care of him first, and dont you pretend nothing was going on.
When he is fully out of the picture confront your wife and dont settle for anything less than the truth.
Hope that this is a moment of weakness or a one off moment. If not then u better get it into your head that if you cant forgive, or pretend it is all over, and dont divorce her, you may well be the one funding the other man
2006-07-23 20:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take u r wife into confidence and ask all the question relating to that issues n tell her that if she could help u out in that matter u would help her out regarding that perticular issues. This will show that he ll know ever thing but would help me out of this stuff. She ll trust u even if she let u know the things. Try this it will definetly work n wont try such things wid other guy even u r away from her.
2006-07-23 20:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by pastakanasta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No wife should be in a bedroom with another man. Give her the benefit of the doubt this time, but keep your eyes open and pay attention .
2006-07-23 20:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Paige F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to reach to the root of the problem on why, if at all it is true, it is happening.
try to have trust on yr wife and get the truth out.
then only take an informed decision.
2006-07-23 20:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have married a woman that you can't trust.
Don't igore it because she will continue to betray you.
Get counseling. And if she continues this behavior then whether you stay or leave the marriage is up to you.
2006-07-23 20:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since she cooly just went out of the room... just cooly show her the door... you know in your heart what happened.
She doesn't deserved to be trusted anymore... trust has to be earned... cooly walking out of the room is a definite sign that she doesn't care what she did to you.
2006-07-23 20:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, are you ASKING for help? Look, my advice is- don't let her cheat on you. I can swear they were going to or had just finished having sex. Talk with her if you love her. But if you don't you'd better divorce.
Good luck to both of you!
2006-07-23 20:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh..obviously they were doing something or about to. She was cheating and you should consider it so..I'm sorry...
2006-07-23 20:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her. She's cheating on you.
2006-07-23 20:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by yodge_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋