like my friend Heather said that he's not Mr. right but I really love him and that I want to be with him for ever. and he feels the same way.
2006-07-23 20:16:05 · 39 answers · asked by Noah R 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I love my cigarettes but my friends don't.
2006-07-23 20:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Raylene G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to Heather and ask her for the reasons why she thinks he is no good for you. Then think about what she said and observe your relationship. When I say listen to your friends, I don't mean dump him. Just be careful. Of course, you make your own decisions and your boyfriend might be only misunderstood by your friends but don't completely ignore them, you'll find out in time if he's Mr Right anyway, don't rush yourself to marriage, THINK, so that you avoid being hurt. If he's Mr Right, he will be, if not, then best to find out as soon as possible.
2006-07-25 05:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by La 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she knows something you don't, maybe she's jealous. Time will tell these things I'm sure. You must be as sensible as possible. Love is blind and a lot people in relationships will lie just to get what they want, even friends. Don't commit yourself to nothing too early in a relationship. If Heather has been your friend for a long time, maybe have a little more trust in her, try and get to the root of her problem with your boyfriend.
2006-07-23 20:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Triis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no mr right and putting all your hopes and dreams on to another person is not a good idea. your pals are probably worried that you are getting too carried away and want to protect you. it's great that you've found a lovely fella and things will hopefully work out just fine for you but don't give up yourself in the whirl of romance. remember you will come down from the high and need your pals as well as your man. Have a read of Iyanla Vanzant's book 'In the meantime' and her others are good too. you can get them from amazon online. enjoy your love and be happy. mr right now is good enough
2006-07-23 21:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anyone can tell you what to do here. You have two options really 1. Ignore your friends advice 2.Listen
If you ignore your friends and go for it with your boyfriend your either gonna have made the right decision and love proving your friends wrong or your gonna kick yourself somewhere down the line and say to yourself "WHY DID I NEVER LISTEN TO MY FRIENDS?"
If you listen to your friends and get rid of him you may end up moving on and finding someone else who may be more socially acceptable to your friends or you may always wonder what if?
I think that you have to just think about YOU and how much you want to be with him .... remember that you learn from your mistakes .... there wouldnt be such a thing if we weren't meant to make them!
2006-07-24 07:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by debbie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?
Or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart
If you don't, you might break theirs.
Too many of us hide our true feelings because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what theywould have done, or could have had.
*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
2006-07-23 21:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask people's opinions but you should form your own judgement based on your own feelings. Outsider's can never really know the ins and outs of someone else's relationship.
(unless there is a really valid reason for your friends to say he is not Mr Right, eg, he is abusive)
2006-07-23 20:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Intern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends, they obviously see something in him that isn't RIGHT, that you at the moment can't see, cause you are love blind. I wish i had listened to my friends on occasions, and nearly lost them because of him.... But thankfully as they were and still are good friends we can now laugh about how stupid I was when I got caught up with him in the beginning.
There is something in you that is making you doubt, because if you were 100% certain you wouldn't even be asking this question would you!! Listen to your friends, good friends stay around forever, boyfriends come and go......
Good Luck!
2006-07-23 20:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by jane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's it got to do with your friend then? You should know your own mind in these circumstances. Your friend doesn't know what actually goes on behind doors in your relationship. You may well find that Heather is actually jealous of what you have.
2006-07-24 00:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by MonkeyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's good! although, I learned a lesson, never have a partner over your friends. Partners come and go, but friends will always remain. Just be careful, hun. I wouldnt completely ignore what your mate has to say, but follow your heart.
2006-07-26 03:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by shadowrunneruk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it your choice really it doesnt matter what they say as long as you fell right cause at the end of the day your are the one who is going to be with him not your friends, you can listen to what they have to say but act on what you feel. so if you feel he is mr right then go for it and stay with and enjoy yourself, and if your friends dont like well to bad for them as long as your happy with him that is what counts.
2006-07-23 20:22:31 · answer #11 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋