my friend who is 29 yrs old, has a girlfriend who cheats him, she is using him to get a pass to enter singapore so that she can be with her lover. She clearly states she dont want my friend anymore, but he still hangs with her. Giving all the $ to her. But this gal is merely just using him. How can i make him understand that this love will not work out. He dont even listen to us and always listen to his galfriend. Now the gal made him marry her so that she can get the migrant pass more faster and can be with his lover faster. But this guys knows all this, but still hangs to her every words. I feel he is being used . i pity him..he is crazy. She is not a preety gal to go gaga over her. anyway they used to live together n now she is at her homeland waiting for her pass to get approved. he stays at my house. dreaming that he gonna start a family soon. what can i do.
2006-07-23 20:11:47 · 3 answers · asked by Violet Calla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You seem to have done all that you can, to convince him. He will just have to find out the hard way...
2006-07-23 20:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by ~Terr~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, seems tricky man, only way is to have a good talk wz the girl, explain to the girl that that's not the way to ruin a man, and try to get to her parents to stop her from being such a menace. As for your friend, love is blind, and he may have to learn it the hard way cos sometimes in life you may have to burnt once or twice to really understand the meaning of pain. However in my opinion, paint a worst case senario and get other friends and family members to help. No point for these kinda gals. Take slow, cos it will hurt for him and he will say u r being negative and most of all, do not let it split your guys up.
2006-07-24 19:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by memphisprints 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are just stupid that way i think they are under witch's spells
2006-07-23 20:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋