My best guy friend asked me out, but I don't think of him in that way.. How could I let him down gently but make him know that I mean no? Please help.
2006-07-23 20:07:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him the truth if he is your best friend he should understand. But also here is something to thnk about, maybe try giving him a chance. maybe you say you dont feel that way because you have never thopught of him in that way. try it , who knows maybe there is something there? just a thought good luck
2006-07-23 20:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by JLO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just stop talking to him then he will get the hint if you guys talk everyday ....then dont give a week or so then let him call you and when he does jst tell him u feel akward cause he asked you out tell him how you feel but whatever you do dont go out w/ him or start a romantic realationship w/ him I made that mistake and my best friend is no longer in my life
2006-07-24 03:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by bonita_lita_chica80sj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened 2 me. and im a guy. you should let him know that your guys's friendship means a lot to you and that your not ready to take the next step with him because you havent developed that connection with him. tell him that if there IS a chance (so hes not completely blown off) it might take time. if hes REALLY your best friend, he'll understand
2006-07-24 03:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have u tell him the ture anyhow r he will found out by hin self r u choose to tell him b8ter i think if he is a real friend he will understand this but it might take time 4 him 2 deal w/ this then u should give him a time
well good luck
2006-07-24 03:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by chinese_lil_bratty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let ur friend know how u feel. If he is ur true friend than he'll understand. or u can do like most n find a boyfriend so u dont have to turn him down
2006-07-24 03:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by lissa f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. i have been on the receiving end of this. but dont give them false hope. it makes things more awkward and tougher to move on. think about it seriously, try not to bounce. if something happens later then great but having the expectation when you arent sure isnt fair on either of you.
2006-07-24 08:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so tell him dat u wanted ro be only his frnd and tell him dat u didnt think him in that way and make him understand and it will work out good luck
2006-07-24 03:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by maddy316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to him I would just like to be friends but we can go to the movies as friends!!!
2006-07-24 03:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by nikki_loves_puppies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋