I am fifteen and yes, I do have a boyfriend. We have not been dating very long to start our sexual relationship. I have had sex with a different partner. We dated very long though. We were both eachother's first, should I be worried about diseases?
2006-07-23 19:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would say diseases r slim on that but u should always be on the look out for them. And dont be dumb... use a condom every time. If u used one i would say not to worry so much for 2 reasons, 1 fluids didnt exchange(if it didnt break) and 2 u were each other's first partner not many chances to get stds.
2006-07-23 19:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by ksblue594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked, 'Should I be worried about diseases?'
Of course you know the answer. You just don't want to know it. But it is too late. You are a sexually active girl with more than one partner. You are too young to get married, so you will probably continue to have different partners until you settle down, which might be 10 years or more from now.
Your body is capable of feeling and giving love, and sexual satisfaction. Since this is one of the most powerful human motivations, it is doubtful that you will be able to stop, now that you have enjoyed it with two partners.
If you don't protect yourself, you will get an STD every few months or years, depending on your activity level. Most of them are totally curable, some of them can cause sterility, and a few are sometimes fatal. One, HIV infection, is almost always fatal.
But you know all this. You just don't want to be responsible for knowing it and hope somebody can let you off the hook and say it is OK to have sex with your boyfriend. But you are playing with fire, and it very likely you can be hurt. So, be responsible and save your life now, while you have a chance. Later, if the doctor says 'I am afraid I have some bad news...' it will be too late. You could be pregnant, sterile, or HIV positive.
;-D If you are going to act grown up, be responsible.
2006-07-24 03:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by China Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK did i miss read this u r 15 u haven't dated long? u have had sex with another( different) partner ? then u say u r each others first??? i don't understand???confused!
2006-07-24 03:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by meemeemee40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre 15 you shouldnt be worrying about having sex you should be having fun and finishing school but yes you should always worry condoms are not 100% on preventing STD's or pregnancy BE CAREFUL
2006-07-24 02:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be safe and get tested. though ya was each others first,many children are born with aids and he may be one of those. so be careful and always use a condom.
2006-07-24 03:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by misqns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! Always use a condom.
2006-07-24 02:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by evie ♥'s her Dodgers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. Any unsafe sex is dangerous. Tell your boy friend if it's not on it's not on.
2006-07-24 02:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋