I'm madly in luv witt a guy.but he's madly in luv witt my enemy.i think i'm experiencing true luv.i'm mad abt him.pleez help me out witt a positive answer
2006-07-23 19:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i also wanna say that my enemy is such a freak that she goes behind total 100% jerks and is ugly(really).my best frend says that i shud just wait 4 him 2 *** 2 me.shud i??
2006-07-23 19:30:12 · update #1
i also wanna say that my enemy is such a freak that she goes behind total 100% jerks and is ugly(really).my best frend says that i shud just wait 4 him 2 come 2 me.shud i??
2006-07-23 19:31:08 · update #2
i'm a very shy gal and am afraid 2 tell him or write him a note.
2006-07-23 19:38:08 · update #3
true love comes back at you plus some. i thought i loved before i met my husband but looking back i just wanted it to be love before. when the real deal came along...it was easy and simple and calming...he loves me in ways i never knew love could be.
this is going to be hard to hear. but if he "loves someone else" you need to start moving on before you get more hurt than you are already. you'll find the real deal. just keep getting back on the horse.
2006-07-23 19:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by lighting goddess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This first part is not positive but i promise the second part is. First though, grow up nd stop bashing your enemy in the forums!!! I am serious, she is not worth your time or energy no matter who loves her. Pleez trust me when i say I wasted 2 years doing that and hating someone that much. And yea, i still hate her, but i have realized that she is not worth my time or energy or even my hate. She doesnt even deserve to be hated. Dont lower urself to her level! I promise you'll feel better later. Be the better person and defeat her fairly!
ok second, positive time! I put myself through a lot of pain just 6 months ago over the same situation. I know how bad it is to love someone so much it hurts. I actually had to help him try and win over the girl he loved. And then I had to hear about her for months afterwards and help him get over her. I was so in love with him and it hurt so badly, that i sat there moping around all day writing poetry and sketching just so i could get the feeling down on paper so they weren't inside me anymore. It hurst so much that I cried every night, every morning. I knew I loved him. And guess what, we are dating and he loves me more than he's ever loved someone else. So don't ever give up hope. But he found out because it got to the point where was in so much pain that I had to tell him. I was suicidal either way, not just cuz of him, but he would have been the icing on the cake. You have to tell him girl. If you want, you can e-mail me and I will help you figure out what to say. But pleez, don't hurt yourself like this or go through the pain. And who knows, if you tell him, taking from ur enemy would be the ultimate revenge........but seriously, even if you are shy, if you don't tell him you love him, you'll neer know what could have been. My boyfriend waited too long to tell the girl before me he loved her, and you know after a year, she finally moved on not even 24 hours before my boyfriend told her he loved her. So don;t wait, it might be too late. Tell him you love him before its too late.
2006-07-23 22:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all love is not an emotion,(although "Seventeen" may have led you to believe that it is) no infact love is an action. *and i don't mean getting freaky.* Love is when two people care enough about each other to make comprimises and support each other no matter how difficult things become.
If the person you care about is with someone else, or desires to be with someone else, Then "TRUE love " will probably never come of it.
I know you believe you are in love with this person, and i am sure you feel deeply for him, but the kind of love you will have with someone who loves you in return is far greater than unrequieted love. Just think what would happen if : the guy ends up with you, and you date and you are in love with him, but he is never fully devoted to you, then you meet someone who is loving and caring, but because you are in a relationship you pass that oportunity by.
I know you are lonely and it is very painful to watch someone who you desire so deeply fawning over someone who you can not possibly stand, but believe me, time will heal the wounds, and if you love yourself and seek out someone who loves and respects you for you, just think how much happier you will be in the long run?
Look at yourself in the mirror every day before you go to bed and say " I will wait for the man who loves me as much as i will love him"
Hey, maybe even keep a diary written to this person you have not met yet.. then when you are finally in that place you can show him that you waited for "true love".
Good luck and i hope you find happiness.
Peace,
B
2006-07-23 19:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by starsforher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a sweet poem.. leave it where he will find it.. when you see him pick it up. wait and see if he reads it.. dont let him read all the way through though. then go over, and and ask for it back. play a little bit of hard to get, ask him if he read it. what he thinks if he says he did. and use shyness as a pro, not a con. maybe he will see that you are a sweet gal, and then you'll be on his mind. he will see if this other girl truely is a bad choice. just remember, sometimes it is hard to see things when you love someone.. think about if he easily just walks away from her, then what might he do if another girl comes along?
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2006-07-23 19:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by LanaLyn15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, how do you know that you are in love? It could be lust mixed with infatuation. I would be straight u and tell him because being led on or holding hope when there is no hope could in the end hurt worse than a rejection. There are many fish in the sea keep that in mind. If things don't go your way with the guy in my experience the best way to get over it is by listening to music and watching movies that make you cry and laugh. Good luck!
2006-07-23 19:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by ekl112583 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to tango. Meaning if you were really, truly in love, he would love you too. There is a give and take that happens in love, a mutual feeling between two people. It is really only infatuation if it is one-sided. If he is in "love" with your enemy, chances are he doesn't have any respect for you and your feelings, and how can you really be in love with someone who disregards you in that way. Your best bet is to chalk this up to experience, move on, and find a guy that will treat you with the respect and love that you deserve.
2006-07-23 21:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 21:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is a mutual feeling of trust, compassion, and reliance. The "my heart skips a beat, i think about him all the time" stuff that your feeling is just endorphines. So, if he's interested in someone completely opposite from you, chances are that he don't even look at you the same way yu look at him.
2006-07-23 19:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you actually? And do you becasue the guy loves the girl and for hatred you thinks the girl was ugly? Relax and think.. Whats yours is yours, Whats not Yours don't force it
2006-07-23 19:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalk him mercilessly.
Spray paint your feelings on his car, and sign your name.
He will probably think it's cute.
Or just write him a note.
2006-07-23 19:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋