Not old guys, just older guys that are married/dating a woman that is 5-10 years younger than he is. In general, have you found this to be true? Please elaborate.
2006-07-23 19:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say that's not true. I would say that A guy who is that much older than his girlfriend would be much less demanding. In fact, he may not give her as much attention as she would like, but usually it works out so that the guy is mature enough so that it's just right. Normally when I date girls who are my age or older, I get accused of demanding too much. Even with Morgan, she felt like I expected too much.
Really, I think the problem with older guys being more demanding comes for girls who are feeling like they haven't lived yet and want to be free to roam, while they guy is old enough to be ready to settle down. Usually a girl like that has to be a little older before, if at all, she decides to settle down. In my experience... but you already know that....
2006-07-24 04:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 5 years older then i am, and he is very good to me, he's not demanding at all.. he's always begging my gf's to get me out of the house because he says i need to go and have fun, yet he doesnt with his friends.. he says he's already been there done that.. where he knows ive never really done that in my life.. but i usually dont cause id much rather be in his arms 24/7 then to go out..
I think it just depends on the guy, all guys are different some are possesive some arent , doesnt matter the age, but their own maturity level.. u can have a 21 kid thats extremely mature for his age.. and is a "real Man" and u can have a 50 yr old man that is a lil boy trapped in a mans body.. just depends on the guy...
2006-07-24 02:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is next to impossible to answer this question with a simple yes or no. Generally speaking, as men (and really most people) get older, the experience more and more things, more situations, more troubles, more positive experiences, find more likes and dislikes. They get more of an "everyday life" established", as in steady, full-time job, bills to pay, family obligations like making time for parents/siblings/other, and etc. The tend to know what they are looking for, and much more so, know what they expect of their partner. They may not have the time nor will to deal with their mate going out clubbing every night, or to a different party every night, staying out til 5AM, and, in their mind, generally feeling like their gf has little or no other focus in life other than having the most fun possible. They don't think there is anything wrong with that in particular, but they have experienced that themselves already, and at this point in their life, it's like been there done that, and need to move on in both their life, and with respect to their partner's as well. Point being, they need to be able to relate and have respect for you not only in you ability to have fun, but also be able to deal and relate with him and the "responsible adult" things that he deals with everday. I may be using some extreme examples here,( not saying you or any other younger partner doesn't have any responsibilities at all), but simply to illustrate the point. Some people see this as being more demanding, but it's totally not, it's just about being in a different place in life and finding a way to express that and still relate and enjoy each others company.
2006-07-24 02:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by cpacek24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a stereotype.And shouldn't be generalized.
2006-07-24 04:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Professor Riddle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋