ok, my ex b/f and i broke up when my baby was a little older than a month. shes almost a year old now, and has only seen her dad maybe 10x, we had a hearing, and i'm waiting on a decision. would the judge really allow her dad to take her out of my home when she don't know him and throws a fit when he even holds her?
2006-07-23 19:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by somegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow. This can be pretty rough. But yes, the judge can and probably will allow him to have visitation with the baby. I would hope that he would insist that since your baby is so young, that the baby not be seperated from you, as the mother. Are you breast feeding? If you are, that might help in this decision. But honestly, I think you will need to brace yourself for the decision that you do not want to hear. And take steps now, to be friendly with him and his family (including another woman if this is the case). Sounds difficult I know. But as parents, there will be far more difficult days than these that lay ahead of us. The best thing that you can do right now is trust and dedicate your precious baby to your Father in Heaven. He allowed her life to come from your body, and truly, she is already in His hands. However, to trust in Him is to gain so much for yourself and for your child. God does not want you to live your life in fear, and He absolutely wants you to enjoy this baby and all the blessings that go along with being a parent. Even though there are consequences to the life choices you make, there are still blessings to be given to you...if you will only look to God for them. So much to share in such a public format. If you want to talk more about this, please feel free to message me. I'm not Jeh. witness, or mormon or anything other than a Christian. I just love the Lord and have a great amount of joy in even my darkest times in life and want to share that with those will allow me to.
God bless you, and may you feel His peace in this "storm." And remember....no "storm" lasts forever. This too, shall pass.
2006-07-23 19:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lovemyfamily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith dear & believe in yourself...........
He might be the father of your little gal...but he's not your husband ? Am I right ? You don't have papers saying you're husband & wife ?
Did he provide allowances for you & the baby ? Just explain in a straight forward way to the judge that he never....never....never.....& all this while you've been a very very good mum & dad as well for the little gal & also do state that you'll have no financial problem since you're working with a ....co OR you're with your parents & they're assisting you with the baby.....unless you're under age then do ask your parents help....Good Luck
2006-07-24 02:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he wouldn't. it has nothing to do with his right to be with her...it has to do with which parent is more suited to raise her. and most of the time...judges don't like to take babies away from their mothers at such a young age. the fact that he has only seen her 10 times in the year she has been born shuld definitely be somthing that u bring up becuz what kind of father is that? u have always loved her and knew that she was ur responsibility it wasn't a game to u. u didn't come and go as u pleased...judges will look at that...so don't be afraid 99% that she's urs.
2006-07-24 03:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by bubblegum0402 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India he could, if it's proved that you may not be a good parent or detrimental to the baby's best interests. Generally, custody of the child should go to the mother until the child is old enough to decide for itself.
All the best!
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2006-07-24 02:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Starreply 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whom the judge sees better to stay with the parent although because the baby is still young its most likely u will get to stay with the babe till she/he is a little older.I wish u all the best that u get to stay with the baby
2006-07-24 02:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take each step at a x. He is also the childs father.
2006-07-24 02:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep he sure would.. he has just as much right to the child as u do.. plain and simple
2006-07-24 02:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he totally shouldnt he will probably see that u r the better parent!
2006-07-24 02:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Hailey. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋