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h3y im on my baby sitters pc and she 16 but my mom dont think im old enough 2 b home alone but im 13 but any wayz..i think im pregnant and i dont know if i should tell my mom or not cuzz she b mad az h3ll sh3 dont 3v3n trust me @ home alone and all my friendz tell me not to give my baby up or ta kill it which i dont want to but im scared if i tell my mom she will and i dont want that so0o0 what should i do~*?!?!?*~

oh chea the reason i think i am iz b~cuzz i waz like really skinny and i went ta school and my friendz waz all like dayummm monica u been eatin alot in da past week or sumttin and i waz like no im not and then keykey hit my stomach and she waz like oh shyt gurl iz u pregnant? and i waz just like i dont know and they asked when waz te last time i had sex and i told dem it waz july 19 and they asked how many times and i said 5 wit da same person *tre* and he said he dont care if im pragnent or not he not going to have nuttin to do wit it~~!!!~~

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omg im freakin out my friendz callin up on m3 24-7 asken m3 if im ok and shyt they all "know" for a fact i am cuzz they said sum tin about if ur pragnant ur belly is hard and if u not ur belly is moveable or sum tin but i been up all night throwen up is that suppose to happen im not even sick ~!~

Answer 1

Tell your mom, you mom will always be there for you no matter what, and you will see as time passes your friends will disapear. You are very young and I can see why you mother does not want you to stay at home alone.. she did not want this happening to you. you are 13, you should not even be thinking about sex right now. You have your whole life ahead of you, now you will have your life and a babys life to worry about. I would tell your mother, yes she will be upset, I am a mother of 5, with 3 girls, I am not wanting this day to come for me, but you should alway be open with your mother, she will love you no matter what. It has already happened and there is nothing you can do about it, you can not kill it, it is already a life inside you. So she will find out sooner or later and you need proper care for you and the baby so please tell your mother.

Answer 2

You said that you think you're pregnant. I think you should find out for sure, whether or not you really are pregnant. You can do that a number of ways confidentially, either through a home pregnancy test or to go to a clinic (patient confidentiality).

If you are, you must tell your mother. She is your mother afterall. After a while it will be impossible to hide from her! Plus, if you are pregnant, it is VERY important to have prenatal check-ups, which means going to the hospital on a regular basis to check the health and progress of your baby.

If you think she will want you to get an abortion, the truth is that it is your choice. When you are at the hospital and they ask what to do with the child, it is the mother's decision, and that means YOU, not anyone else's. It is your decision. I learned that in my Biomedical Ethics class.

Answer 3

After reading all of the answers that were sent in, there is allot of good suggestions and support. The only thing I would like to suggest is, if you have a family friend that is an adult that you can trust then talk to them before you talk to your mom and explain you problem to them and ask if they would come with you as support someone you can lean on while you explain this bomb shell problem to you mom. This may help defuse some of the first momentary anger that will first come out, after it settles in her mind she will hopeful curve any future anger. The first couple of minutes after the bomb shell lands are going to be the hardest and then things hopefully calm down. Having someone who can be there to give you support will really help.
Your mom is your best friend, she is the one who raised you and knows you better than anyone else and she will be there for you while you are growing up and help you through crises of life as you get older. Another suggest about adoption, if you were to put your child up for adoption you can make arrangements with the adopting parents is see your baby and try to be there while he/she is growing up, this way you will always be there for your child. You are very young and you have so much ahead of you in life, please take one day at a time and things will get better..
Good luck and please take care......

Answer 4

Get one of those pregnancy tests. They are most accurate after about a month of pregnancy.

If you do have a child, I feel sorry for him or her because he will grow up not even being able to form a complete sentence using proper english.

If you weren't prepared for the pregnancy, you shouldn't be having sex. 13 and having sex? Your mom is right for not trusting you to be home alone. You are not trustworthy.

Wait until you're sure and you need to tell your mom. She will find out sooner or later. If you are not pregnant, use this as a lesson to stop having sex until you are mature enough to handle a child.

Answer 5

omg omg omg omg omg. I'm 13 too and i was just thinking about that today. i made a promise to myself if i ever became pregnant young that i would NEVER give up the baby. first, make sure you are pregnant, if you have the guts to, tell your baby sitter. keep it between you and her until you know you are pregnant, but best yet keep it to yourself. well if you're pregnant you're pregnant there's no way sneaking it past your mom. they find out everything, we both know this lol. we both knoe that 13 can be a pain in the ***, pressure to have sex, boys, grades, drugs, all that crap. but you'll get through this no matter what! your mom loves you, i can tell because she doesnt want anthing happen to her baby girl, that's why you need a baby sitter. these are the kind of things God created parents for! contact planned parenthood for help.best of luck to ya hun!! email me if you wanna talk or something :)
maybe you're just bloated

Answer 6

buy a preg test right away. there is not point in worring about it untill you know for sure. you have to have missed your period for a whole month.. so id wait til you dont get it 2 months in a row.. then get tested. if ur nervous bring a friend with you. in addition, you are 13... in NO way what so ever old enough to raise a child. I cant make that choice for you, but find out if u are or not, dont assume. and if you are, id really discuss it with your mom. yes, she will be super mad, however you can not do this on yoru own. my mom didnt trust me when i was 13, its bc she cares about you. and even though she will be pissed when she hears the news, she will help you through it.

Answer 7

first of all how do you know if you are pregnant? have you taken a test or anything? if you are you should definately tell an adult, even if you cant tell your mom just yet talk to someone other than a friend your age. you need help getting through this and doing whats right for your baby. i know your scared, i have been there, but you need to tell an authority figure, like a teacher or a close family member.

Answer 8

Hey ok look im 8 months preg and im 16 yrs old and I always thought that my parents would kill me if i was pregnant and i found out that i was and like 3 or 4 days after threy found out they were ok with it and now they cant wait for it to get here so tell her hopefully she will understand and if she dont then let me know and i will help you in any way i can but do not hurt the baby or your self and dont give the baby up you will never for give yourself for it i still cry because they wanted me to give mine up at first but then they changed their mind and i know that if i did i would never figive myself...but let me know what you do and ill help you in anyway i can...

Answer 9

reguardless of what your friends tell you, you need to tell your mom. Your friends will not be there with you when you give birth or in the years that it takes to raise this child. If you want the right to make the decision to keep your baby, then act like as much of an adult that you can be and tell your mother.

Answer 10

You poor girl. If you're not giving it up, you need to tell someone. A trusted adult, maybe? One thing's for sure: you can't go through this alone. I know you're going to be worried about how your mom will act, but you're going to have to pay the consequences for your actions (I know that sounds really parent-y). Plus, honesty is respectable. Good luck, hun. I hope everything works out for you.