Iam the only daughter of my parents and i cannot afford to hurt them as i am sure that they will never agree to our relation.Sabeer is 5years older to me .Now iam 20 and he is 25.What should we do?We have been having an affair for about 5years.But we have had only healthy relations
2006-07-23 18:48:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
think twice.
2006-07-23 18:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you muslim too? Because that information can lead to two totally different peices of advice. Either way, if he is a really great guy...I'm talking he kisses the ground you walk on. If he's just really that great, then go ahead and let your parents know. You're a big girl.
If you're muslim, (I am muslim) then it's a shame that some people in our religion are so dissapproving of exploring a man's personality and deciding, as a grown woman, who is worth your time. Espeically since the Quran bans forced marriages, and encourages a healthy relationship with your spouse.
If you're not muslim, the same advice goes to you. As for your parents, you need to eventually explain to them what the situation is. You're 20 years old!! In the end, it is YOUR happiness. If you are truly in love with this man, give him a chance by getting your family to try and accept him. From what I've seen happen to loved ones in that they settle for what their parents want and either never marry, or marry unhappily.
Best of luck!!
(I've seen this happen toooooo many times)
2006-07-24 02:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by happyfarah88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be together. Be sure your parents know how much this man means to you. If at first they do not approve, tell them that you love them and your relationship with them is very important, but you are an adult. They have to let go at some point. No matter what never cut ties to your parents, eventually they will come around when they see how much Sabeer loves you.
2006-07-24 01:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it took my parents 3 yrs to accept that I'm going out / marrying a Muslim. I'm a muslim convert & I have a 8 month old baby boy now.
It takes time. Just let them know slowly & convince them. Bring him over & spend time together.
2006-07-24 02:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you find the termination for all your future and peace of your parents` life.......don`t you read news papers and see news on TV.
2006-07-25 12:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋