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Question

ok well just incase i am pregnant wich i think i am is there any teen girls out there goin through the same thing i want to know the best way to tell my parents and my bf i want to tell my parents as soon as i find out so i can get the prenental care and help i will need for only being 14 everybody who can please help me please answer please thank you chel-c

Answer 1

Good on you for wanting to take care of yourself and your child, but first make sure that you really are pregnant. Take a test and then see your doctor. As far as telling your parents, there really is no easy way, you just have to come out and say the words. If that is too hard, write a letter to your mum and leave the house for a few hours. It will give them a chance to get over the shock a little. Hopefully they won't hit the roof but even if they do, they will calm down eventually.

Answer 2

i just went through the same thing a year ago. I'm a little older but none the wiser. I sat down and told my parents. They flipped out on me. Told my that i had to have an abortion. For me was totally out of the question and then said well put it up for adoption. Sorry No. I told them this is my responsibility and i will do whatever it takes to raise this baby. They didn't like it at all but i did it i kept my son. It wasn't easy during the pregnancy. They called me some pretty hurtful names and made a lot of threats but we all worked through it. All I can say to you is to seriously think about your future. Can you afford a child? Will your boyfriend even stay by your side? What about school you have to provide for a child how can you do that if your don't have an education? Will your parents even be willing to help you? There are other ways to look into like Medicaid pregnancy insurance and WIC. will help you with food but what about you can you afford to have a child at your age. No one can tell you what to do. That is all up to you, all I guess I'm trying to say is be an adult in your decisions don't be selfish or childish

Answer 3

Good luck sweetie. Tell your parents DEFINATELY before the bf. I can't say I've been there, but good thinking for planning on starting this off right. I hope you can get the care you need. You should get yourself to a Pregnancy Resource Center or Crisis Pregnancy Center and they can get you tests to find out if you are, and they can help you make good decisions and counsel you so you arent alone through this. If you aren't, then you need to do some soul-searching, and stop being sexually active. 14 is WAY too young to start being in a family way, both physically and emotionally for you.

Answer 4

I'm not a teen, but am on my 2nd pregnancy. Tell your b/f and make him go with you to tell your parents and his parents. Both sets of parents should be involved, since this is a grandchild for both of them. If you are pregnant you need to make sure that you are getting at LEAST 2,000 mg of calcium a day. For an adult woman it is 1,500, but since your own body is still growing you need that extra. Take a test as soon as you can. EPT can sometimes tell the day your period is to start. Prenatal care is crucial. If possible start taking a prenatal vitamin BEFORE even finding out if you are pregnant, just in case.

Answer 5

I got pregnant when I was 17. My mom had come to the Dr. Appointment with me, so she found out at the same time I found out (not fun! but now we can laugh about it). All day I sat in the kitchen waiting for my BF to get there (he didnt get off work entil later that night) and when he had known I went to the doctor because I was getting these really bad cramps. He walked in, and I started crying. Apparently he had talked to some girls at work, and they told him I 'could' be pregnant (one girl had the same cramps while she was preggers) well I start crying, and he hugged me, and said "your pregnant arent you" and I just cried and cried... i think the hardest part was telling my dad. My bf and I went up to the house, and my dad knew something was up because we needed to tell him something important... i think my mom hinted to him, because he was super cool about it, and didnt freak out. My BF told his mom over the phone... she about had a heart attack (and the whole 9 months kept telling me to abort or give up for adoption, which i didnt). It was tough telling people, but i wouldnt give up my son for anything. He's now 2 1/2 and is the light of my life!

Best wishes to you!

Answer 6

Ok Iam not a teen but Iam a mom and I know that if my child was pregnant I would want her to come up to me and be honest.
If you are tell someone right away who you can confide in like a sibling, counsler, etc.. If you need help telling your parents the best thing is to get someone to help you tell them but just be honest with them.
Also just be honest with your boyfriend.

Answer 7

I think you should tell you Mom as soon as possible..You are making a wise choice there, Sounds like you want to keep this baby (if you are pg...as you are smart enough to want to get the immediate prenatal care you will need}. Good luck, sweety...it is tough....you are a baby having a baby!!! You will grow up so fast now...need your Mom's help. I will pray for you.

Answer 8

first of all you need to tell your mom, cuz pregnancy is a very scary place to be at all by yourself. prenatal care is a must and i am very happy your bf is pushing you to get that. i am nineteen and i just gave birth to my first baby 7 months ago, he and i almost died bc he came 3 months early and i developed preeclampsia! if it hadn't been for the great prenatal care i had we would not be here today. good luck!

Answer 9

hey girly!
i'm not gonna sit here and tell you that u have to go take a pregnancy test, but if you think that you can, you should. That will ease your stress SOO SOO SOO much!!!
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