I have a problem climaxing every time we have sex. My boyfriend and I love eachother very much- he tries to hold up until I do climax- but sometimes it take sooo freaken long I feel bad so what do I do? I lie that I climaxed.(sometimes)
I know it's bad- But considering women don't climax as much as males, or am I wrong?
2006-07-23 18:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get a lubricant like K-Y or go to your local XXX store for the lubricants that make your clitoris extra sensitive.
You should also be patient....think more of enjoying your partner than of When am I going to ***! And BREATHE and RELAX.
Also, have him take more time out initally for fourplay on you.
2006-07-23 18:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women CAN climax just a much/even more than men, if they just learn how. Its all about relaxing, the big problem women have is a full mind. We spend all of our time thinking oh my god, do my breast look alright?, does he see the cellulite on my rear, did i balance teh checkbook. Its crazy. But you MUST relax, feel completely comfortable with your body and enjoy it. Think about how it feels, don't focus on the orgasm, but the events getting there. Tell him if ther is something you want or need, feel free to yell, scream what ever it takes and trust me you will get to the point you can have a HUGE orgasm even without actual sex. There should always be a wet spot to make him sleep in!!!
2006-07-23 19:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal for some women to not climax as much as males, yes. There is nothing bad about what you are going through. Try some techniques to help get you there, if I may get graphic, play with nipples, rub yourself while having sex, talk dirty with boyfriend....
2006-07-23 18:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by sistermoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, it's harder for women to climax. Let him know . . .you shouldn't feel bad because sex is about both of you. Try reaching climax other ways besides actual intercourse. Also, try doing Kegal exercises. It worked for me.
2006-07-23 18:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by carebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to practice his oral skills!!!!! I couldn't climax for years until I found a man who was so good at giving oral.
2006-07-23 19:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋