I'm just wondering what is wrong with this? It's nothing that harms anyone. It seems it's just cultural objections. Mostly in the USA...
2006-07-23 18:28:08 · 17 answers · asked by Haley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have a friend who is very straight, he loves wearing dresses. I always laugh at him because he will actually say "i need to get into something more comfy" and get into a prom dress! I don't know how anyone can be comfortable in dress clothes, but I hate dresses!! There isn't one behavoir that makes some one gay, thats a love and relationship thing. If you like wearing dresses, do it, if people complain, ignore them.
2006-07-23 18:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mithrandir_black 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are YOU placing such emphasis on cross dressing? If you don't find it abnormal, then do it and stop complaining about what others think.
Various countries dress differently. Prince Charles wears kilts as do his sons however, American attire has never promoted men wearing kilts. Does that make Prince Charles or other males from his country any less a man... certainly not. Does that mean there is a right or wrong in the way people in various countries dress... no there isn't.
You must understand the cultural aspect of of each country and be accepting of their ways. Think about the comment you made..."Mostly in the USA"... you are being critical of the American culture. You're view is that Americans are wrong for not wanting to wear dresses? Think about it....
2006-07-23 19:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with crossdressing ..I own a group with over 600 cross dressers ..
Its not accepted as it is not understood .. even with the melting pot that the USA is they are still a bit narrow minded. Look to history and also in other countries where its OK or commen place for crossdressing to happen ... example scots wear kilts ( skirts?? )
2006-07-24 00:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what it is. Cultural taboo.Many people are surprised that %60 of cross dressers are Hetero. Shoot, ole J edgar hoover was a cross dresser.
2006-07-24 11:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dell W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live as is most fulfilling for you. I'm just wondering why being a cross dressing hetero would make you more acceptable than a cross dressing homo. I get your point but as unintended as it may be, your point also demeans me -- a non-cross dressing femme.
2006-07-23 19:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothoing wrong with crossdressing weather you or straight/bi/gay whatever just enjoy the feelings you get from it.
Don't worry about what society thinks you have to live your life for yourself. As long as you don't do anything criminal.
Enjoy your feminine side.
2006-07-24 08:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not like cross dressing. (Doing it myself that is. I find women's clothes VERY uncomfortable, the crotch of panties is too small.etc) I am glad however that you show that cross dressing has NOTHING to do with sexuality, you either like to do it or not. Being a cross dresser does not make you gay, straight or bi. It just means you like to cross dress.
I am gay.
2006-07-23 21:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything wrong with crossdressing. im dressed in female cloths right now.im straioght it,s just that i love how comfortable things like skirts,stockings, and most blouses really are.if i had the guts, i would crossdress ALL the time. So if you like it go for it.
2006-07-23 19:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by jerry g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem with cross dressing is finding full acceptance and understanding in this world. that's it.
2006-07-24 11:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by gaygoddevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong. I just think people are scared that they might enjoy it. Too Many Alpha Males try it at home i think and are scared to admit they enjoy it.
2006-07-24 02:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by pampering_dame_sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋