Well, we're both 18. We had sex 6-10 times. I only came once during that span (these were my first sexual experiences). I used normal Trojan ribbed condoms. Every time.
My ex is a very emotionally sensitive person who cries easily, and stresses over things, little to big. It's abnormal how much she stresses, but it seems like the stress is constant. Added to the stress has been me breaking up with her, the looming thought of college being so close, etc.
Should I be very worried about a pregnancy? She's reluctant to get an HPT, but I'm trying to convince her to do so. She's scared. I'm starting to worry.
2006-07-23 18:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no visible or noticed condom breaks. no leaking from the condom.
2006-07-23 18:25:19 · update #1
I broke it up because I'm about to leave for college and we're going to be 1500 some miles away from each other, so I wanted to save a lot of heart ache for both of us.
If she's pregnant, and we've already spoken about this: she wants an abortion. I support her decision, but if she were to change her mind, I would support her as well. I'm not pleased with the thought of being a father, but if that's what's happening, then it happens and I'll do the best I can.
2006-07-23 18:28:08 · update #2
Thanks to all of you who replied. I greatly appreciate it. I've just now convinced her to take the test, so I'm getting it for her tomorrow, and we will go from there.
Thanks so much!
2006-07-23 18:56:01 · update #3
its very possible she could be pregant your semen could of leaked thrugh the condum you could of broke it or when you pulled out some could of leaked it nly takes one time regardless how many times you came
2006-07-23 18:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by shyshy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, sorry, but if a birth control pill is taken late, especially around the time that ovulation would occur, then yes-she could be pregnant. The pill stops ovulation from happening (an egg being released), so if she was that late taking the pill, its possible that she's pregnant. Taking the pill an hour late wouldn't matter....but 5 hours late, you have a bit of a reason to worry. If she's 5 days late, she should take a pregnancy test-she would be far enough along now for it to show an accurate result. Best of luck. Edit: And if she's been really stressed, remember that that can also delay her period. Have her take a pregnancy test to ease both of your minds.
2016-03-27 04:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks late, it's possible. Definitely do a test. Make sure you there for it. Well, you never know if she's faking it hoping to get you back How lang ago did you guys broke up? When was the last time you did "it"? Why does she refuse a HPT ? Better e figure things out before it's to late.
2006-07-23 18:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by sabina-2004@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. with condoms use something else to gaurd against sperm
coming over the top or leaking somehow. Spermacide.
2. if she is high strung, stressed, emotional type, her period
is probably stressed off the calendar.
3. Buy the ept and hand it to her, tell her you BOTH need peace ofmind.
4.She playin Ya?
You sound like a great guy!!!!! Stay concerned and contientious
and b careful from here on and good luck in school.
ps, if she IS...................thats Gods call.
2006-07-23 18:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...it's very possible that she could be, theres a pre ejaculate and that can still get her pregnant, it's not common but is possible. Also, i've had this happen to me, with soo much stress your period becomes late, then you start stressing about the possibility of beign pregnant makes it worse. Tell her she needs to take the pregnancy test and make sure, even though your no long "together", that she knows your there for her no matter what.
2006-07-23 18:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Christine!!!♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be pregnant tell her that you have a right to know and if she is pregnant she has to start taking care of herself.
But...
You say she's stressed. Stress will cause your period to be late also. I know personally that I've been late and it was because of stress. Tell her to stop worrying about things so much and take it easy.
I hope everything works out for you.
2006-07-23 18:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever stop to think that your condum leaked, it only takes once my man not how many times. If you are that worried best keep it in your pants. To ansewer your question not nesasarlly,how ever she should take a test and go to the doctor for a for a check up to find out.
2006-07-23 18:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation before...I doubt she is pregnant, but it is still possible. Be patient and you will see everything will turn out fine. And keep using condoms or some form of protection!
2006-07-23 18:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing you shouln't have left her. that just makes it worst. And there is an 80% chance she can be pregant , even using condoms, birth control, and the patch. but what could really help her is goin back with her and tellin her everything is alright, tell her if she is pregant you will be there for her and the baby until the end. HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS . keep ur head up bro.
2006-07-23 18:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kandis D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is very possible she could be pregnant,,the HPT is a very good idea or take her to a clinic and have then test her there,,,oh and don't forget to have her checked for a STD u can never be too safe u know
2006-07-23 19:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by kendra26nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell if she's preggy until you go to the right person to tell you exactly what she has inside... Convince her to go to a doctor, but what will you do after you find out?
2006-07-23 18:24:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋