Why do men cheat and never feel compelled to come clean?

Answer 1

because we are whores

Answer 2

You're dating the wrong men. We're not all pigs. I've never cheated in a relationship and had quite a few and now have been married for over 20 years. I know many men with similar stories. As far as coming clean - they probably don't want to lose you and are avoiding it as long as they can.

Answer 3

This is a question that needs quite a bit of pondering...I think a legitimate answer for this is that they are either afraid of selfish. Some guys who are afraid, don't want to tell because they are afraid of losing the woman that they love. Sometimes it happens because its too late before they realize it. But this is the best answer for this...Oh and women do cheat and not come clean too and this is about the same reason.

Answer 4

dishonest fairly has more effective to do with the Cheater quite than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they attempt to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they experience entitled to bigger interest, affection, confirmation... It has no longer some thing to do with love- it is fairly more effective about self-loathing, and perceived desires as against really desires. even as men or women cheat- they comprehend it is incorrect, and it is incorrect because hurting some different person is under no circumstances sturdy for your self. some human beings stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they could rationalize dishonest by using telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet both honestly a mode of start up from interior of. Love is a decision- so is happiness, and also you'll distract your self with new human beings or reviews, yet ultimately you capture as a lot as your self and then you should start up all yet yet again or fix the issue.

Answer 5

People cheat because they aren't satisfied by their current relationship. They aren't having fun, the relationship has lost it's flare, they don't feel companionship, or they aren't sexually satisfied. Cheaters lack of self control, good ethics and morals. Sometimes people get suspicious of their partner and cheat just to "get even."

Why don't they come clean? there are 2 reasons: 1) They feel ashamed, so much that they don't want to admit their wrongdoing. Pride could play a role in that too, they could be too into themselves to want to admit they were wrong or that they hurt someone. 2) They just don't care. In that case, they're scum. they're too selfish to care about the feelings of the person they cheated on. If they're doing it for revenge, they wouldn't care either.

Answer 6

Well I would classify that for women too. No one wants to come clean, that would mean hurting the other person and then having to live their mistake. There are a multitude of reasons people cheat... drunk, not satisfied, angry, want to get revenge on their partner, office romance... the list could go on and on

Answer 7

I dont like that answer i just read. We are NOT whores! Men do it because they can. We dont want to think they dont love us. They dont come clean cause we would just forgive them and take them back anyway.But we would watch them like a hawk. And then they would have more trouble cheating. Which they would! IF they cheat, they dont love us.

Answer 8

because they know its wrong and feel guilty about it . No morals, Men like the easy route. A man will never leave a woman unless he has another woman to go to, but a woman will leave a man because she has had enough

Answer 9

Very good question! when all you wish for is honesty. I was told this
"Because I didnt want to hurt you" But oddly it hurts far more when its a lie"
" I will never do it again I swear " and we forgive and respect. The diffrence between a man...and a woman!

Answer 10

If you robbed a bank would you leave there and walk in to the police station to rat yourself out? Same reason.

Answer 11

women cheat and never ever come clean about it.