2006-07-23 18:07:18 · 8 answers · asked by Vie 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It depends on whether you want to make his self esteem lower or bring it up LOL! Your husband has to do the lions share of this work as it is personal. You can maybe offer self help books if he is into reading, use humour, positive comments and be honest with him about how his low esteem affects you.. However, you are not responsible for his interpretations and reactions to life and you cannot 'fix' his life or outlook. Sorry, but it is really up to him.
2006-07-23 18:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, your question might use a little more factual data.
A man gets his self-esteem from accomplishment. Having a marketable skill that gives him income with some job satisfaction.
Of course, you can tell and show him how much you love him, but he's still gonna need that career-kind of reinforcement.
It's not like with women, some of whom can get all the self-esteem they need with beauty cosmetics and Wonderbras. :-)
2006-07-24 01:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always build him up. Let him know he is the greatest and you are so happy he is in your life. Do special things for him. Buy him little presents and surprise him. .Rub his neck and back, telling him how much he means to you and without him your life would be incomplete. Tell him how nice he looks, that he is handsome, you adore him etc. Meet him at the door when he comes home, give him big hugs and kisses, reminding him you missed him today. Sit with him on the couch, hold his and rub it with your other hand. Just little things mean the most.
2006-07-24 01:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u always make him know that u r proud of him always compliment him before he leaves and when he comes home.Balance those levels so that he knows hes appreciated.Take control and make a believer out of u that he should love himself first and then see the level of his esteem
Make these signs improve the best way u can without loosing yur own them pray about it consistently then they may be powerful results.......
2006-07-24 01:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by VooDooQueenWitch Docter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hes ur husband give him a lot of sex nd tell him hes great at it moan and stuff pretty soon hell not only be smiling more but hell feel so danm good about himself
use ur noggin
2006-07-24 01:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by blaxican56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue putting him down
nitpicking
pointing out his faults
sleep with his best friend
2006-07-24 01:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by fartswhenigiggle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral. All men feel better after that!
2006-07-24 01:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no malice please, when you are having s** try to moan, shout, say something like "you're the best honey" or anything that will make him strong.
2006-07-24 01:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋