Plz Read All Of This If U R Goin 2 Comment. Ive been with my dude 4 almost 2yrs (on an off). But sumthin aint right. I think I may have feelins 4 1 of my exs but I dont know what to do. He stay far away but that was never a problem. Summers he is always here with me. He seem jealous an like he dont trust me. He is too clingy and wont give me space. He pick agreements with me 4 no apparent reason. He is also nosy as ****. Sumtimes he act like he dont care. I love him but im not IN love with him. We recently had an conversation bout breakin up. He thought I wanted to but I think he may want to. I asked him but of course he says no. I often think about another ex ( I am deeply IN love with him.) Im 16 and im usually aware whats right an wrong. What should I do?? Plz help!!
2006-07-23 18:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by 8_letters_3_words_1_meaning 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My 15 year old had the same problem. She was with guy 1, but guy 2 liked her and she wasn't sure if she liked him. I advised her to go without either for a few weeks. she took my advise and ended back with guy 1.Guy2 still comes around as a friend, but at least she knows what she wants for right now.You are 16, and there is still a lot out there for you. So takea break, figure out what you want and go from there.
2006-07-23 18:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by sabina-2004@sbcglobal.net 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
it can be really hard trying to figure out what to do with guys. You can feel almost stuck into something because it is so comfortable for you, but don't let that control your feeling. You know when people say there are a million fish in the see? I hated hearing that when i was younger, it was stupid it never made me feel better or help me with a problem. But Hunny it's true! Guys should be your last worry at 16, but there not. They are everything at your age and even for the next couple of years. Just remember one thing. You do deserve to be happy, to be treated right. And if not by a guy than you owe that much to yourself. So if this guy isn't all what he use to be or even maybe it's you who has changed. It's OK just do what will make you wake up every morning with a smile on your face and one less thing you have to worry about.
2006-07-23 18:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by blueflamingo2626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT what u want to hear-thats what I have to say. Read if u want .
Your mind is 90% taken up with the stresses of a love life that aint EVEN a love life, but a big fat game.
Get a guy who likes to take you on picnics and football
games and to the frikkin mall and to hang out with friends and
proms and ****!!!!! Girl, you got your WHOLE damn life to
stress over all that heavy crap. Lighten up and b 16, for Gods sake. I got married at 17, 18 i had a girl, 19 i had another girl and that beat goes on thru 2 more boys and a grandson by the time I was 30. I wiah I could go back and be a freekin teenager first..................THEN i'd take ALL my babies!
2006-07-23 18:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to school and learn how to spell, and make a complete sentence. You seem to be letting hormones and chemicals run your life. Plus the fact that you don't sound intelligent enough to make an intelligent decision. If he is arguing with you he is testing you. Boys will always come back with a little encouragement. No-you have no idea what is right and wrong. There is no right and wrong. No! you are not deeply in love with him-maybe lust and that is about it. Stop using chat room to get your answers. Do you have any idea what you are talking about?
2006-07-23 18:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by denny jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do whatever makes you feel good sweetheart.
But,if you want my opinon,you make try to rekin,with that ex.Your current doesn"t sound like a winner to me,as a matter of fact it sounds like the only thing he has going for him is YOU,and since he can't seem to trust you,,,then he surely doesn't deserve you.
2006-07-23 18:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake up for a week dont go with the other dude yet, then just see how it goes and after a week choose from there.
2006-07-23 18:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kandis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with WickedMagnet. It sounds like you both pretty much know it's coming. It might be hard but it'll be worth it.
2006-07-23 18:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by punkkel323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be with the guy that you can be yourself around!! Go with your gut feeling!! Choose the guy that treats you better and you feel cares about you!!!! Hope I helped!!!
2006-07-23 18:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by MCRobsessedlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget boys. go to school and learn to talk right. get an education. then find a good guy.
2006-07-23 18:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to let it go, kiddo. Sounds like you both know it, so don't keep on being miserable if you don't have to.
2006-07-23 18:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋