2006-07-23 17:52:19 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is our right, as Americans. Don't let the pro-lifers scare you. They worry more about blobs of cells, than actual people who are alive and living right now.
I've had an abortion, and it saved my life......yes, I did have misery afterwards, but time heals that.
A baby is the MOST important thing in the world....why would you want to bring one into this sh*thole of a world when you're not ready?
The prolifers forget that the spirit of the baby will go back into the guff in heaven to be put into another baby. Why condemn the spirit to a lifetime of misery to a person who is not ready for it?
2006-07-23 17:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by professionalfemale01 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Having ONE abortion is not okay just because it isn't TWO abortions. Your question is really odd. ONE abortion is still ending a human life. Ending a LIFE - not ending a MISTAKE. There is a difference between mistakes and lovely babies. If you are not able to raise the child, then at least carry it through to adoption. You do owe your "mistake" that much don't you think? Time to grow up to face this situation and I do hope that you do give this little soul a chance to live. A fender bender is mistake --- getting pregnant might not have been planned, but you can't "mistake" your way out of it. Even if you get an abortion, you will be plagued with sorrow and regret for the rest of your life. Please either keep your baby or give him/her up for adoption. The only losing choice is to end his/her life.
2006-07-23 18:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by nice to know 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, everyone does make mistakes. And, no people who have abortions are not baby killers, if you do a little research about pregnancy you will find you aren't killing anyone. If you are considering having an abortion make sure it is the right choice for you. If you are to young or in a bad situation, it could be an option. But don't forget there is always adoption and try to learn from you mistakes.
2006-07-23 18:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Nattie B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband paid for 3 abortions when he was 18-21 years old. Now at 44, he still wonders who those children would've been. My stepbrother and his wife adopted a child born as the result of a rape where the mother - a married woman with other children - decided to carry him and let another family raise him in order to avoid killing him in abortion. He is such a blessing to us all! I saw my friend almost die over the course of a year after having a botched abortion where the fetus was killed, but not removed from her body. An arm fell out into her toilet one day a few weeks after "the procedure" had been done. She almost died from the bleeding and infections. I've heard women talk about their abortions - and regretting them. Some never could have children because of the scarring that resulted from the abortion. Some just never got passed the emotional pain. They still remember the day of the year "it" happened and what time of year "it" should've been born. Because of reasons like these, I have to say I disagree with abortion. I don't believe it is the quick fix it's shown to be. It certainly isn't exciting - I mean when a baby is coming there are baby showers, pictures, everyone is anticipating it! I've yet to hear of an "abortion shower" or anyone getting thrilled to see the baby killing. Instead, it is almost always something done with the utmost privacy and shame would result from others knowing. How could any of that be freeing or good?
2016-03-13 00:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought "what if *I* was a mistake"? And if your mother decided to have an abortion you wouldn't be here right now. A whole life unlived. Ppl talk about women having choices. Well, unless you were raped, you had the choice as to whether you wanted to get pregnant or not. There are all sorts of things to prevent that, so there really aren't any excuses nowadays. Abortion is becoming as common as getting a facial. It isn't something to be taken lightly. Conception and birth used to be regarded as miracles. Try thinking more about adoption. If you're not ready to raise a child right now, there are lots of willing parents out there who are. You will have the peace of mind that you did the right thing and you may even be able to have a relationship with the child down the road when you're in a better place in your life.
2006-07-23 18:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever seen the movie the silent scream? You should look for it and watch it. I believe you can watch it online for free. It shows the ultrasound of a woman's stomache as an abortion is taking place. They rip the babies feet and legs off of its body with a hook shaped instrument. Then they continue to rip the baby out with this instrument peice by peice until they reach the head and then they scrape the remains out into large buckets.
The entire time this is taking place the baby is maneuvering its little body trying to get away and its mouth is opening and closing as it cries in pain. Is it okay? I suppose if you are a heartless individual who is more conscerned about your stupid rights than the life of an unborn child!!!!!
I use to try and justify abortion, until I saw this. They interview a woman who had worked for a company who literally goes into the clinics after the abortions have taken place and buys the body parts that are "useable". Many abortion clinics are making loads of money off of these companies...which as a result has caused the doctors who perform the abortions to keep as many body parts as "in tact" as possible. The woman in the interview said that she had gone into numerous clinics where babies had been ripped out completely whole and were struggling for air...sitting in a PAIL IN THE CORNER OF THE ROOM...LEFT FOR DEAD!
She said she also had seen numerous times babies that were still alive after the abortion so the nurses or doctors would pour water into the pails that they had dropped them in and drown them. Sorry...I may make a lot of you really mad...but I don't care about your stupid rights...IT IS WRONG!!!
You need to seriously take into consideration the extreme measure of pain, guilt...depression that you will more than likely go through if you do it. There are people all over this country who CAN'T have children who desperately hope and pray every day to be blessed with one...a member of my immediate family is one of these people. Think about your options before you have an abortion. There is adoption...and it doesn't cost you a thing!
2006-07-23 18:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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IS it okay to have one abortion. Because everyone makes mistakes?
2015-08-11 23:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rosalee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If getting pregnant was your first mistake well that is one thing. However, having an abortion may be another mistake. Better consider talking to your pastor, clergy or local pregnancy care center. You need the right kind of support. There is a lot of "emotional" stuff that takes place during this time...so don't do anything (else) foolish!
2006-07-23 18:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are not ready to give the baby a good life than by all means everyone does make mistakes and if you are mentally prepared to handle then do it. Just learn from that mistake and don't think that everytime you mess up there will be a way out. Good luck with your decision and don't regret it...ever.
2006-07-23 17:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by miraballer25 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't think it's ok to have MORE than one. If that's the case, you probably shouldn't have one. Give the baby a chance. If you can't raise it, then give it up for adoption. Yes, everyone makes mistakes, but don't make another one by having an abortion.
2006-07-23 17:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by michi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether it is ok or not is not for us to judge. What is right for me and my moral beliefs, may not be the same for you. As long as you can live with it, then it is your choice. Legally, you already know that it is acceptable. Only you can make this decision and only you have to live with your choice.
P.S. In response to an earlier post...a child is never unwanted! There are so many abortions in this country that the adoption waiting list is 10 years! That makes it very clear that there is someone out there who would gladly raise and love a baby. I did just that..adopted...and would do it again.
2006-07-23 17:57:33 · answer #11 · answered by ilse72 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋