We Got In A Fight G=For Almost No Reason, then She Went And Made A Big Deal Of It... What Should I Do? I Miss Her, But I don't Know If She's A Real Friend Or Not...
2006-07-23 17:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by Miss.Understood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, your worrying and feeling bad about the misunderstanding and her leaving you shows that you are being a good friend to her. But her on the other hand, your friend seems to not be such a good friend because she's not willing to try to understand the misunderstanding and work things out like you are willing to.
You should let her know that you really want you two to work things out and for her to understand that it was all a big misunderstanding. By the way she treats you could tell you if she's a real friend or not, like if she ignores you or isn't considerate of your feelings, then that tells you something. Ask what is really bothering her, maybe there is something else other than the argument?
And if you want to know if she's a real friend or not, you can ask yourself what you have done for her and what she's done for you. Whenever you had problem, was she there to help you out? You should do what you feel like doing, like putting up with the hurt and being on the side, when she's breaking the friendship. If you're tired of it then you know what to do, unless she's willling to work it all out.
Good luck!
2006-07-23 17:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Verie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just dont think about your friend, if she is a true/real friend after a big fight and when each one of you said sorry to each other, the issue whihc you fight for will no longer be an issue. If she does not come back for any reason at all, she is not a real friend, there are so many people around with whom you can develop another friendship again.
2006-07-23 17:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by kanzig g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a misunderstanding. leave it be for a while. if she is a real friend both of you may realize the fact and get over it sooner or later . getting back toghter in some form of trust is going to be tricky for both of you. If she won't let go then there are other people to make friends with.use the incident as a learning lesson in life.
2006-07-23 17:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the whole story but you mentioned that you dont know if shes a true friend or not..well why dont you tell her that there was a misunderstanding and dont want to break a friendship up over something thats not worth fighting over and miss her and her response will be your answer to if shes a true friend or not....If she still "blows up" after you tried to reconcile than no need to waste your time over something that proably wont get solved....wish you luck!! Remember friendship goes a long way!!!!
2006-07-23 17:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets upset no matter who they are and she is no different. give her a call and tell her you are sorry she took things wrong and tell her you value her friendship. she may just be afraid of talking to you now. if i were you i would call her and leave a message if she doesn't answer. by you apologizing, you are the better person. if she doesn't answer the call or call you back, she wasn't a friend to begin with.
when you do call i would mention something like "hi, i just wanted to let you know that I'm sorry you took what happened/was said wrong. what actually happened was (then explain yourself briefly)... I'm not mad and i hope you aren't either. please give me a call when you get a chance. bye"
good luck
2006-07-23 17:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it was a misunderstanding and be clear about the fact that you still value her friendship. Then it's up to her to accept or reject. If she rejects, move on and make a new friend.
2006-07-23 17:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend ! Ok well go for it. Tell her you are sorry. Watch your back , there may be a knife in it soon after. But if you like your friend I would go tell her you are sorry.
2006-07-23 17:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up to her by giving out her name and email on yahoo answers. She will thank you forever.
2006-07-23 17:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋