Just curious.
2006-07-23 17:20:21 · 21 answers · asked by bradlitazole 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok I am sleepy so please bear with me as I write this.
According to Kinsey's research regarding sexuality, depending on where you are in your life your sexuality may vary. He came up with a scale:
0 - heterosexual (would NEVER do anything or think anything gay
1- hetero with an inclination(might have a thought)
2 - hetero with tendencies (might act on it during a craz college party)
3- Bisexual (likes both me and women)
4 - homo might have hetero tendencies
5- homo might have hetero thoughts
6 - Homosexual
During his research he interviewd hundreds of individuals both gay and straigh and the scale is the result.
Now i will say there are a lot of flwas to his research but this scale has been proven very accurate troughout the years. I am a lesbian and I would classify as a 5 cause some guys out there are just way hot :P
Don't freak out we all have our thoughts and sometimes we want to act on them....sometimes more sometimes less sexuality is fluent.
I hope this helped! :)
2006-07-23 19:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by ms_fantastico 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only one? What a shame!
Seriously, I would say that homosexual acts have a place in most people's imaginations, whether only occasional or recurring or even against their will. Many pre-teens and teens have them out of curiosity and thrilling sensations, and most adult males probably have some kind of sex act or guy that they can easily become aroused by when thinking of it.
And why not? Only recently (since HIV and AIDS appeared) has public discourse about sexuality become so polarized -- either you are this, or you are that, or you are both, or you are in denial, and so on. But if we go past trying to put once-and-for-all labels on identities, and if we just attend to what our own tastes and interests draw us toward, we might acknowledge and be thrilled by thoughts, ideas, imaginings, and dreams that really have no need to cause us inner conflict. Why do that to yourself?
2006-07-24 14:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by fall2005buseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal, especially for teenagers, as those are the years of exploration when they learn who they are.
If you never had a chance to explore as a teen, it might happen later in life. Some people don't know the truth until they're 40,50,60 !!!
Again, Kinsey's study showed that very few people are 100 percent straight or gay in their thoughts and behavior.
2006-07-24 10:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Infact I would think it would be extremely uncommon if you didn't have at least one thought or fantasy like that. Sometimes when people have those fantasies they just have to know what it's like because they are curious. At least that's what I think.
2006-07-24 01:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Geckolion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - - no matter how hard one might deny it, everyone has that one twinge of 'curiosity,' often more than one - - and in normal societies people are allowed to explore their sexuality in their teens into their twenties, then certain urges kick in and a majority settle into heterosexuality while a few decide to stay gay.
2006-07-24 06:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - it is normal. I personally think that everyone has sexual atttractions to the same and opposite sex - it just depends on the degree of those attractions and how you decide to act upon them. It is all good man!
2006-07-24 18:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes very common and normal especially if your young and curious.
2006-07-25 13:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one? Well, if it is only one then I don't see that as a problem if you think you are str8. They are called fantasies for a reason. They are not real.
2006-07-24 03:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one? Dude, you gotta work on your fantasy life more. Peace!
2006-07-24 00:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfectly normal. For some it is just a phase, for others, it's a part of our lives we were born with that we'll have forever
2006-07-24 00:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋