i lived with 4 girls last year and they were a bunch of bi.tches! they spent pretty much all of their spare time talking about me behind my back, even though they were nice to my face! i only found this out from the other lad in the house just b4 he left because he hated them by then as well. I should be glad that they spend all of their time thinking about me, but to be honest it still hurts. When i think back to some of the comments they made, i can see that all the time they were not joking, just trying to bring me down and make me feel bad. Apparently the lad has been having big arguments with them, sticking up for me, none of which i knew about until the end. Apparently they all used to go to the pub without me as well! Im living with some foreign girls now and they r really nice, and ive lived with lots of other girls b4 and they have been fine. Just letting off steam really!!
2006-07-23 17:14:52 · 25 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks guys, that has made me feel better!
2006-07-23 17:30:08 · update #1
OK, seeing as I'm a stripper and there for have worked with quite a few trifling tricks in the past 10 years let me try to explain this...
Some Trifling Tricks feel so bad about their self that the only way to pick up any self esteem is to run down other people. Some fallow the thought misery loves company.
The fact is Karma is a ***** and what comes around goes around....Let it go they were probably just jealous of you for some reason. Or last but not least.... One dominate girl didn't like you (see previous reasons ) and the rest are followers,most likely to avoid her turning on them as well.
2006-07-23 17:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Gossip is a real vice for girls, there's no denying that. I guess b/c we don't get to act out our anger or frustration by fighting we learn other ways of doing it. Things like this start at an early age, and the goal is to get to the top by tearing others down. It's similar to the way some boys want to beat others up to show that they're the strongest. It sucks that you had to go through that, but try picking and choosing the ppl you associate with more carefully. If you hear them backstabbing someone else, then they're probably doing it to you as well! Don't let it bother you, they just needed someone to serve as the object of their persecution and you just happened to be there.
2006-07-23 17:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the pain you might have gone through. Some girls just wnat to prove to themselves that they are better of than men - so they handpick some men to try out their extra-ordinary intelligence and make u feel **** at the end of the day.
But I do not agree to your calling them bitches. Even if they are one, leave them.. move on.. they are not worth remembering any more. Thats it. Why do u want to call them by names and lower your dignity ? Is it not.
Cheers
2006-07-23 17:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by deebeein 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all will have are chare of mean ex girlfriends’ but that is what helps us to grow up and mature. When you get older, you will look back and say to your self “yes” I made the right choises in my life and be proud of it. Forget those losers’ people like that will never change just be glad you got away from that crowd.
2006-07-23 17:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry you are having such attacks. maybe they weren't so much trying to hate on you and were more using this trash talk to bond. some girls are just that way. you should be careful who you hang with.if this came as such a surprise i doubt it has any validity. you should not give them the satisfaction of having hurt feelings. i hope you feel better.
2006-07-23 17:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by mypurpleelephant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls Sucks dude
2006-07-23 17:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Moses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are 2 faced bi.tches to make up for some of us that aren't bi.tches at all.
2006-07-23 17:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all get that way behind your back when you give them something to say. Blowing off steam is a good idea.
2006-07-23 17:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of not so nice people in this world, male and female. My advice would be to choose better roommates, but it seems as though you have already done that.
2006-07-23 17:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by LuvCandles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME girls are btches like SOME boys are *ssholes. im sory you had to deal with those girls. i think its all about just surrounding yourself with the right people. and it seems like you have now. dont worry sbout thsoe girls and wht they said. they arent worth your time bud! just be a good person and good htings will happen to you.
2006-07-23 17:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Shelbzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋