I've been wit my boyfriend for 2 yrs. now && have had only 1 orgasm. Now after having my daughter 10 months ago my sex drive is gone. I mean i think about him all day sumtimes sexually but when it comes down to it i just don't want to have sex. Why?
2006-07-23 17:14:39 · 5 answers · asked by FlyAway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your hormone levels may just be screwed up since you had the baby and/or you're just worn out from taking care of your baby & aren't in the mood...you might try checking with your doctor to see if they can check your hormone levels
2006-07-23 17:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that after you have a child that you no longer crave sex as much as you used to because you get "tired" of doing all the motherly things.
Why don't you get a baby-sitter and watch some porns with your boyfriend and see if that helps and don't for one second let your child enter your mind until after you two have finished and ARE BOTH SATISFIED!
2006-07-23 17:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor...This could be the result of different things...Hormone loss..post pardom depression comes to mind. Go see a doctor and if you have mutual friends or you are comfortable (you should be) with your mate talk to each other of what is wrong...Some times women get this strange thing of not thinking of themselves a beautiful after birth because of weight or the short period after birth that they breast feed and their boobs are so sensative they don't want to be touched...Women are complicated for sure but don't let this fester and become a major problem!!
2006-07-23 18:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lot due to the baby. But I found out that a root called maca can help. Find it at a health food store.
2006-07-23 17:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check behind the dryer
2006-07-23 17:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by wbuzzryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋