how can i noe whthr my gf is serious bout the relatnship or is it jus a fling 4 her..her attitde mks me confsd

Question

its like i ws relly mad bout her..1st wen i proposed she said yes nd l8r on said NO saying tht sheve only considrd me as a frnd nd she likes sum1 else nd being being relyl heart brkn wnt nd said tht i dnt wanna continue the friendship either(which she said shldnt b affected by her saying NO) nd 4 which she cried the whle damn day...nd aftr like 2 or 3 weeks thru her frnd she askd me whethr it'll b OK if she says yes again..nd i said im alright wid it..nd she said shez serious bout this thing nd told me not 2 consider tht shez on 2 me jus coz she dint get the other guy...but her attitude nd tone ovr the phne makes me feel as if she has taken it jus as a time pass or 4 the name sake...she calls me most of the time..but thn dear folks plz help me how can i noe whether she relly loves me or its jus a fling 4 her????

Answer 1

I'm just wondering if she changed her mind because she met the other person after she said yes to you. Finding that she was more attracted to this person, she figured the grass maybe greener on this side. Apparently it was not and now comes running back to you to say yes.. I would say to just be friends with her and see how it goes. Don't make any commitments. I would be very cautious of this girl who says "yes" and then says "no" later on because she likes someone else. She should have said Let me think about your proposal before saying yes to you. Let time work for you here to see how she really feels about you. Go slow.

Answer 2

Man i know that feeling...Simply ask. Ask her what she thinks of the relationship you two have, and how she want to continue it, if she even wants to.

hope it helps

Answer 3

ask her what is it that she wants man.. one minute is yes and next minute is no ..then its crying.. then its yes again.. if she can be this crappy about a proposal.,. are u sure u wanna marry her? ur gona have hell man...think it over carefully...