I just called my best friend a while ago and I haven't seen her for a month.The last time I talked to her on the phone was Thursday.She said that she'll call me around 10 pm cuz a guy friend is at her house.I really needed to talk to her-but she doesn't know that.Should I feel hurt?
2006-07-23 16:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by Glo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-07-23 16:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being hurt is natural but in all honesty that stuff happens with friends. She will call you and maybe you all can make a way to have a girl day together a day a week or something. As guys start getting invlved freindships get strained a little but true friends could be a waya for months and still come back and be best friends.
2006-07-23 23:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by smurfettewv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if she is tied up at the moment. Doesn't mean that she doesn't care. Though you and her haven't talked in a while for reasons unknown. Might have been on bad terms or not. give her some time. If she doesn't return the call then maybe she is not ready to talk. Don't force the issue.
2006-07-23 23:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by mary a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can control how you feel. If a situation hurts you then it does. To stop it from becoming a problem tell your friend how you feel. I mean maybe she is going through some changes and issues herself. That could be why she is not as attentive to you.
2006-07-23 23:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by adyafterday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She asked if she could call you back because she had company and you agreed. If you didn't tell her that you really needed to talk to her, then you can't expect her to read your mind.
If you choose to feel hurt without knowing all the circumstances, you could damage your relationship with your friend. You can find someone else to talk to until she calls you back, you can wait to speak to her, or you can call her back and tell her that it is something really important that can't wait.
2006-07-23 23:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know that you really need her right now...so it really isn't her fault. Since she hasn't seen you in a month...she might have made this guy friend her priority. Don't feel bad...I'm sure she still cares for you a lot...she just didn't realize that you need her.
2006-07-23 23:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be angry or hurt, you did not tell her you needed her. If you had, and she is your best friend, she would have made time for you as soon, as possible after the guy friend left.
2006-07-24 00:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say to her that the was important? If you did and you got that treatment she was rude. She can't read your mind. However, Don't feel hurt she is still a friend.
2006-07-23 23:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be mad at her because she is paying another friend some attention.........If she calls you back, tell her nicely tht you were a little bit hurt and I am SURE that she will apologize......Take care,dear..................
2006-07-23 23:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should feel hurt because she is with a guy and not you.
Maybe you should grow up.
2006-07-23 23:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. She may just be very busy. Try to see her in person and ask her if everything is ok.
2006-07-23 23:53:23 · answer #11 · answered by degs1982@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋