I am with the most amazing guy I ever had the luck of meeting. I'm falling hard and fast, but I am so afraid of losing him. What should I do to keep him? I don't want my heart broken yet again.
2006-07-23 16:48:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're fairly young - please believe that you'll meet many many "amazing guys" by the time you find the right one. Does he feel the same about you? Why are you so afraid of losing him? If you think you need a strategy to keep him... take it from me he most likely isn't worth it. My advice would be to "calm down" and "chill" and let things work itself out. If its meant to be it will be if it's not it won't. No amount of worrying or wishing or caring will fix it. Just relax and let it work itself out. Don't be so hard on yourself.
2006-07-24 09:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to do to keep a person. Doesn't matter if you have 3 or 4 kids if they are ready to leave you they will leave. Just be happy and enjoy the moment don't think about tomorrow and even if he leaves you, you will find another person. Don't be afraid to get your heart broken, if you are a woman you will have a broken heart more than once, been there and still here nobody can destroy me and I now nobody can destroy you. You are an important person and you don't need a person to make you feel OK or safe you need to love you and be OK with yourself.
2006-07-23 17:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mamarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luck, afraid???? Does that describe how he makes you feel? You won't keep anyone who doesn't want to stay with you. Relax and be yourself. Enjoy being with him.....that's how you increase the chance of him staying. If he still leaves.....oh well, hearts mend, life continues on. Besides, there is always another amazing guy not far behind him, and that one may be even more perfect for you.
2006-07-23 16:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that means you are a little unsure that you are "good enough" for him. Think about all of the great things about yourself..the things that you think are your best qualities and that he loves about you, and then rethink things. He may be the "lucky" one. Whenever you feel this way, I would suggest always remembering the good person you are and that you are worthy. Good luck to you! Hope this helps.
2006-07-23 17:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no.....you should never do things to keep a man. You don't change yourself or concentrate on not losing him. You should always be true to who you are and if it's going to work out for the two of you it will.
2006-07-23 17:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to jump through hoops then get out. I mean little things to make a guy happy is cool, but don't cater to him. That shows as a sign of weakness and will then be expected.
2006-07-23 16:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by adyafterday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to do extragavent things just to keep a man. Just be yourself and if he doesnt like the way you are then he isnt the one for you.
2006-07-23 16:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a "Gimp Box" Keep him locked in it and use him when needed. Oh and make him wear leather.
2006-07-23 16:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and dont and give room to breathe you know let him have his space and everything should be fine
2006-07-23 16:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋