I Have A Crush On A Girl I Know, But She's A Major *****. Plus She Flirts With Any Guy She Meets. What Should I Do With My Feelings? Oh Yeah, Plus She Hates Me Right Now For Some Reason.
2006-07-23 16:45:35 · 24 answers · asked by joey_fh 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You have a crush on her because although she crushes on all guys, you feel singled out (like your special). You should find someone deserving of you. And if she hates you then just be nice and let her know how people view her. You never know, maybe after she's done messing around...she will remember you as someone special who didn't treat her like a piece of meat.
2006-07-23 16:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
When a young man has a crush on someone, he becomes blinded.
He becomes oblivious to any consequences that might come out of the relationship with her if it did come to pass.
You explained it with the correct word: feelings.
The attraction which you are feeling for this girl's charms is stronger than any attempt you might make to turn your attention elsewhere.
As long as you can visually see her on a daily basis, the attraction is there and will not go away easily.
Only at a time when you finally meet and are equally attracted and drawn to another will you finally refocus your attention. Until then, you are held captive...captivated by this young siren who garners all of your waking and sleeping moments until there comes such a point in time that the feeling diminishes and you are able to once again gain control over your emotional attachment to this young pretty thing...such is life!
She flirts, you think she hates you, but all this doesn't matter to you...you have "the crush" and you are, for the time being....hooked, hooked on her allure and there's not a whole lot you can do about it except enjoy your dreams of the two of you together and what could be and, in time, this too will pass.
2006-07-24 00:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by GeneL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do anything about your feelings with this girl, how are you going to feel when things are going great and she's flirting with another guy?
If I were you, I would let her stay mad at you right now, leave well enough alone and don't get yourself involved in something you may not want to be a part of. Not good for your ego...
2006-07-23 23:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by bdbsmom2897 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you must not like her too much if you are calling her names on a msg. board!! Maybe she's got a good reason to hate you treating her like that. As for the flirting, it could be a lot of reasons, maybe its just her personality, maybe she has low self esteem, maybe she actually likes you and doesnt' knwo how to show it. That could explain the flirting and the hating!! But seriously, if you don't respect her enough not to call her things like that then maybe she's better off without you.
2006-07-23 23:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get over your crush, she seems very high martinets. Do you want a girl that's most likely going to put you through alto of bullsh*t.Is it worth it to you. Start hanging around new people. Find life and you will find adventure. Maybe she's not the one for you.
2006-07-23 23:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by teresa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look for another girl. One that's nice and doesn't flirt so much (i don't think you'd find a girl that doesn't flirt at all). I know it'll be hard at first to get over her. but trust me, you'll find someone better and you'll be thankful that you got over this girl.
2006-07-23 23:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Vampire Kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens when you crush your finger? It hurts right but time has a way of healing our wounds. Take your time my friend, feel and love with all your heart but with your eyes wide open and hope your little lady keeps her legs crossed or at least a fresh supply of condoms handy.
2006-07-23 23:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by BEENSADOON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste you're time on a girl who isn't willing to waste her time on you. Honey, if is she a ***** than your'e just going to be another name in her book that she's been with. Your feelings will eventually go away with time if you face the truth instead of making excuses of why she is acting the way she is.
goodluck ;-)
2006-07-23 23:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not easy just to change your feelings but don't let her know she has any control and at least start looking for someone else it takes time but you can do it
2006-07-23 23:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by devans042503 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not worth it bro. If she's a *****, hates you for reasons you don't know, and flirts with anything with a pulse then... MOVE ON.
2006-07-23 23:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋