I think about it at least 4-5 times a week
2006-07-23 16:45:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it is called marriage. but thats more like every time i hear my wife
2006-07-23 16:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is not normal to think about suicide. It is good that you are reaching out to someone, but this is not the forum for that type of question. Every city has a suicide hotline. You are computer savy, look it up. NOW! Now I am going to be worried about you. Is that fair? If you commit suicide, where is that gonna leave us? WE will feel responsible because we were not able to help you. Now you owe everyone here a follow-up to your question. I am gonna need you to let me know that you have contacted the suicide prevention hotline. Have you made plans on how you are gonna do it, kill yourself? Never mind, the hotline will ask you all those questions. Are you looking up the hotline yet?
And another thing, here is a proverb for you: "I always complained that I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet."
Do you get it? Now go call the hotline. RIGHT NOW!
2006-07-24 00:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Such A Fn Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you want to call it "normal" but I know that at a point in almost everyones lives we have each thought about it at one time or another. You are obviously curious to why you feel this way, what brings these thoughts on? Is it a relationship gone sour, is it your job? I mean sometimes it's a very hard thing to accept that we are each where we need to be on our path in life, and whatever may be taking place in our life right now causing this inner turmoil is supposed to be taking place, so instead of thinking about suicide, think about why these things are happening, what led up to them, is it something you can change, if so how, if not, how can you learn from it, accept it, and go on. Look for answers to your questions instead of the one answer you are dwelling on and that is to end it all. That is a very selfish answer and if that were to happen you would only be thinking of yourself, think of the ones that are in your life that love you and how this would hurt them, would you want to be that person causing that pain. I had a very good friend do just that and I was angry for a long time because he in the end was only thinking of himself and not how his actions would affect those that loved him. So think about all of this and good luck tomorrow is another day and I hope you find the answers you're looking for.
2006-07-24 01:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is NOT normal, but extremely common. PLEASE seek help. It truly is a permenant solution to a temporary problem. I know how life can seem unbearingly overwhelming and feel like it is never going to get better, but it does and it will, IF you seek help immediately. I suffered from depression for a long time, and quite honestly the drugs helped, but therapy and God is what saved me. He has a plan for you and I am sure that is not it. Pray, God will hear you and he will help you. I've seen firsthand the horrible horrible way suicide affects that person's loved ones, and you surely have many people that love you. Look how many people that dont have a clue who you are are trying to help you. Please listen and get help.
2006-07-24 00:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is can be normal, but is sound like you could use a therapist or anti depressant. Seek help ...reach out to others. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.. Things will change for you and look up. You are special and wonderful. Please give life a chance!! The best is yet to be!!
2006-07-23 23:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by electrosta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to seek some professional help
It's not normal to like of it 4-5 times a week, it's best to talk with someone about this
2006-07-23 23:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bob, Everything is fixable. You just need a plan. You have to go and talk to someone about this though. It isn't really normal to think about it as often as you are. There is nothing wrong with you. LOTS of people think about it as often as you are in different phases of their lives, but in order to get back to feeling good (and I know that sounds impossible right now) you have to have a plan and you will need to talk to someone to help you get that plan.
2006-07-23 23:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by woogieuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that it is not normal, why do you think about it what is wrong that you can not change? Just ask God to give you the courage to overcome and if you don't belive in God then go to see someone that can help you because this is some serious stuff.
2006-07-23 23:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by twinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal b/c everyone in the entire lifetime will think about it. but 4-5 times is a bit too many. that's not normal
2006-07-23 23:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide in not a solution, it may solve your problems but you will leave alot of problems behind. Like how will your family and friends cope. Get help. ASAP Call someone who will listen.
2006-07-24 00:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Connie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everybody gets so down they feel desperate at sometime in their lives. We have CHOICES and we must CHOOSE to come up out of that despair. Seeking God who totally understands where we are at, is the answer and the way up out of this hopelessness .you are apparently feeling. I would encourage you to seek God and he may lead you to some medical help along with His Word which is the ultimate medicine!
2006-07-23 23:59:36 · answer #11 · answered by Sonya g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋