what are some of the things you would do to see if someone love you or not would you use someone else to see if this person would become jeolous or not
2006-07-23 16:43:27 · 8 answers · asked by grey_eye@rogers.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've learned my lesson many times over to not put myself out for anyone. I just sit back and let it happen and you know what - it does happen. Just ask my fiance.
2006-07-23 16:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking is the farthest I will go to see if someone loves me. Jealousy does not equal love. Some people not in love get jealous and some people in love will think you are not happy with them so move on if you try this tactic. Everyone shows love in different ways and contrary to the comment it is not rocket science, it can get confusing. My husband shows love by working to provide for me and the kids and I used to think he didn't because he was not around a lot with all the work he did.
2006-07-24 01:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd certainly not play games (i.e. make someone jealous). If the person behaves in such a way that I'd think they love me, then that's good enough. Usually, the tell-tale signs are there one way or the other. It's not rocket science lol.
2006-07-24 00:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats totally not the answer. the real question is, do you love this person enough to be faithful? the world cheats ever day and no one can stay faithful anymore. the last thing this world needs is more hate. be good to who ever it is. it hurts to be cheated. have you ever had your heart broken like that? if so then you know how it feels, dont do something so stupid.
2006-07-24 00:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower81990176 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you have to play games, or stage a test to evaluate someones love for you? If you feel the need to do that....it's not love, either on your part or theirs. And no, I wouldn't use someone else.
2006-07-23 23:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if this person loves you, then you don't need to find out, because they will tell you. Remember, what goes around, comes around, maybe two or three times when you try to use people.
2006-07-23 23:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go the simple route: if it instinctively feels like they love you, accept it. It's been a long time since I was in college and I'm tired of tests :)
2006-07-23 23:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont wont to do that that you will no in time
2006-07-23 23:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋