Thier are going to be other females thier and i am not going with him. what should i do? when he goes he never comes home when he tells me he is going to and only calls me one time a day when he is thier what should i do? i love him and i want to trust him but every time he goes he tells me about all the girls that was thier and they worked together in the passed or something like that. hmm i am not sure what to do
2006-07-23 16:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by suepooh23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would love to go with him but i am in school and their is no computer thier for me to do my home work and post it.
why dont he come home when he says he is goign to? should i worry when he is up thier with all the guys adn other bitches?
2006-07-23 17:04:08 · update #1
hire a PI. they will do all the devious investigation stuff. while you can do your thang let them scoop the answers for you.
2006-07-23 16:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, you are starting to sound like a wife. It's surprising you haven't been told that yet, if you already have problems with his friends. The thing is that his friends can't make him do anything he don't want to, so, it's not going to do you any good to try and slow things down now. You just keep an eye open and watch for any signs that he may be with any of those female b------ he's talking about. Don't give him any reason to think you don't trust him, but don't give him the benefit of doubt about not taking on temptation either.
2006-07-24 00:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO AND HAVE FUN!!!
Do you have a reason not to trust him? It'sokay if he doesn't call every day, it doesn't mean he's not thinking about you or doesn't love you. Give him his space and time with his friends. A good way to push someone away from you is to try to keep them on a chain. If you make a fuss about him going, his friends aren't going to think much of you. You have some issues you need to work out. My advice to any man with a girlfriend like you is GET OUT! No one should put up with that.
2006-07-24 01:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go with him. Meet the girls that he talks about and then you can gage a little better if you should be concerned. Realize though that even if you don't want him to go, he's probably going to go anyway. And if you make a big deal about it, you'll probalby have a bigger reason to worry then if you just told him to have a good time.
2006-07-23 23:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by peacegirl_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him? Do I detect power, self esteem and trust issues?
Do you allow him to have money and maybe his penis when he leaves home? How often is he required to "report in"?
Maybe while he is gone you could maybe go to school to learn hmm I don't know.....Spelling!
If he were doing something I doubt he would let you know there were girls there.
Get therapy.
2006-07-24 00:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by macdyver60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, get off of the keyboard.....go to your man....tell him you have some major trust issues going on when he goes to the lake.
Talk to him....not us.
2006-07-23 23:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some self esteem and self respect work so that you are not so tied to how others behave.
go here: http://www.codependents.org/
2006-07-23 23:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say go go! have a good time then go follow him after he's left.
2006-07-23 23:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to miss out on the orgy
2006-07-23 23:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by otc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋