Should I leave him? Or talk to him about it? Is it a fetish of his?
2006-07-23 16:10:37 · 16 answers · asked by Haley 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
so he can be bi? is that normal? should i worry?
2006-07-23 16:15:24 · update #1
OK, dear, let's calm down.
First, just because someone has photos of Trannys in their pornography collection, doesn't mean that they are actually in to Transsexuals. Usually such interests come from curiosity. If he has been faithful and loving, why would you dump him? This may be out of your comfort zone...that's all right. Tell him you love him, and that you want to know what excites him and why. Maybe it is the domination aspect, maybe he is simply intrigued, as long as no one is being harmed, emotionally or physically, sexuality should never be condemned.
2006-07-23 16:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you leave him...what do you think? That is a no-brainer I would hope, of course leave him. If he is having sex with this group, there is a high possibility of getting AIDS/HIV as statistics show that the bi/gay/trans. have it more widespread than heteros. Get out now and choose your bf's more carefully. Get to know someone as a friend first before you dive into a serious relationship.
2006-07-23 16:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not nesessarily gay...there are quite a few men around who are cross dressers,but lead perfectly normal lives as straight men.So perhaps you need to clarify is it cross dressing that interests him or does perhaps he want to find out more about being a transvetite ie:a woman in a man's body.Communication is the key to this.
2006-07-23 16:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, well if I found out my bf liked tranny's, I would kick him to the curb. SOunds to me he has severe issues and needs help. He may turn into a Tranny one day, I would get out now.
2006-07-23 16:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a fetish.. Nobody here can tell you whether to leave. you have to decide whether you can live with it. I would be cautious about the safety thing however if he is playing both sides of the fence.
2006-07-23 16:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Leave
2006-07-23 23:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by CYNDIITA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to him about it. He might be bi-curious......might be a fetish......or just a curiosity. If you care about him....I think give him a chance. Good luck!
2006-07-23 16:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ambervisions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! He is gay............... and straight which makes him bisexual. Actually i think he's confused and talking wouldn't help. It's your choice to leave him or let him cheat on you with some guy ............or girl............or a guy that became a girl........... or a guy half way on his way to becoming a girl. Where do you draw the line????
2006-07-23 16:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Simmi Reds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES thats weird and YES you should leave him. that shouldnt even be a question if you value yourself as a woman.
2006-07-23 16:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by prtybrwneyez1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bisexual, probably a fetish with the tranny thing....either let him do one or grow a penis
2006-07-23 16:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dementia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋