Alot of people are always quick to try and lose their virginity; forgetting the fact that when your have sex your becoming a part of that person. Why cant people just wait till marriage?
2006-07-23 16:10:32 · 16 answers · asked by johnathen777 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yeah dude. right on! Yay for true love waits!
2006-07-23 16:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by homesch.musicnerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man who has been married for ten years, and has only had sex with one women, I believe sex is no different than any other action that you perfom in your life. If you want it to be special it will be special, if you think of it as awful and disgusting then it will be. I can honestly see why people would want to have sex befor marriage, or even with others while they are married. These people do not realize that an orgasm is an orgasm weather you are masterbating or doing it with another person. Once that one fact is realized then a person is better able to commit themselves to one person, because they realize that the only way to feel the emptiness inside is to have a true relationship that is about more than sex.
2006-07-23 23:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by drpedigo_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having sex. If you read the bible you will find you was put here to have sex. There was no one back then to marry you to someone else. So not until someone found a way to make money from marriage did you have to get married. It is just a mans law and not even a real law. And the bible is not the word of god anyway unless you call a king god. You will live and you will die why live a life of sorrow when you could live.
2006-07-23 23:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Petunia, Folks were having sex a LONG time before there was marriage I guess. The waiting for marriage thing was so important in the early civilizations be cause a rich landowner wanted to make sure any kids his wife had was HIS.... and would inherit his land and title. Sex IS Special!!
2006-07-23 23:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peer pressure, lack of education at home from parent(s), for girls, and boys alike...lack of a solid father figure, poor self-esteem. All of these reasons and I'm sure there are many I'm missing are the reasons why people have sex so young. There are not boundaries set, no importance placed on saving oneself for "that" special someone. It is sad because being in true love and sharing oneself with another, sexually, is one of the best experiences in the world...there is just something wonderful about sharing that intimacy with one person...like having a secret. I wish young people would realize the importance of keeping their virginity intact until they do find that person. Birth rates, divorce rates and the incidences of STDs would drop dramatically.
2006-07-23 23:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by andreahud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are programmed to propagate and procreate to ensure the survival of the species. Women attach emotion to sex making men's procreative instincts complicated. Men obviously have to have sex with women, so they're stuck in the middle.
So, the answer is, if you're with someone you truly love, sex should be special. If not, it's just sex -- no big deal.
2006-07-23 23:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing special about sex. We each have the capability to do it, some people are pretty stupid when it comes to it, and others don't give a duece one way or another. I don't really care much for it. I'd rather have love, because anyone can have sex with anyone else. I'd rather make love with one. The One, if you get my meaning.
2006-07-23 23:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by shadowscarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never tried to lose my virginity, it just happened. Me and my gf were in my room on my b-day talking alot and it just happened. I don't regret it and look forward to next time and I guarentee you, it was special. And btw, I love now being a part of her because she is the love of my life.
2006-07-23 23:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by blakefabian2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting is all up to that person some people think everyone is mr or mrs right and theyll marry but life doesnt always turn out that way..And most women dont enjoy their first time so Im glad I wasnt married to him because I found myself very dissappointed........
2006-07-23 23:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by Charity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone looks at sex the same way that you do. If you choose to wait till marriage, then yay for you. But what's it to you if others choose not to?
2006-07-23 23:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Yeah, Toast! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people feel if you wait until then
and you fine it not to be special so you try it a few more times
and still nothing ...so you ask friends ,family and it sounds totally different from whats going on with you and low and behold you are stuck like chuck....
2006-07-23 23:16:52 · answer #11 · answered by midnite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋