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I know he really loves me. I love him too, just not as much. I worry about that. I want to love him more but I don;t know how. What can u tell me?

2006-07-23 16:00:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Talk with him. Communication is key to any successful relationship. Explain you concerns with him in an appropriate time and place. Tell him exactly what it is that makes you feel the way you do. If the love is strong than you will get through this. Come up with a solution that you both agree is going to make your relationship stronger. Don't be afraid of the effort or hard work. The payoff is worth it.

2006-07-23 16:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by mstang 2 · 0 0

Sit down and talk with him about it. Ask him straightforwardly how he sees you and your relationship with him. Then tell him honestly how you feel right now. People usually don't develop their feelings on the same timetable. When I was dating my husband, he told me he loved me within about 6 weeks of our first date. I didn't love him yet, but I knew I was moving in that direction. I was honest with him, told him that it was wonderful to hear he loved me and that he would hear that back from me just as soon as I knew for sure.

And you don't force love. You let it develop naturally. If it's going to be there, it'll be there. If not, it won't. Too many couples are in love with the idea of being "in love," and they try to MAKE it be there when it really isn't. They mistake lust with love, neediness with love, fear of abandonment with love, jealousy with love. Relax, enjoy his company and tell him if it's meant to be for you to love him like he loves (or likes) you, then eventually you will. In the meantime, keep working on making yourself worthy of being loved to the max!

2006-07-23 23:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lioness 6 · 0 0

I'd move on. people grow apart. make sure you communicate this too him so he's not shocked by it later.

2006-07-23 23:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0 0

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