2006-07-23 15:54:43 · 35 answers · asked by princess leah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No. If he loves you, he would WANT you to abstain until he marries you.
Now, if you don't care about respecting yourself or being respected, then by all means, go down that life-ruining path of 'casual' sex....
I just hope you don't get "Casual" Herpes!!
Then you won't have to worry about boyfriends or marriage or any of that stuff. You'll be too busy picking scabs off your privates.... Now you tell me that's not a sexy picture!!
Bottom Line... DON'T BE STUPID
2006-07-23 16:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Enya Mau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU think that your ready not when he thinks. Juss keep n mind that u'r the one that can get pregnant and make sure that if he's ready to have sex that if you wind up pregnant that he would be there every step of the way and make sure that he means it.
Most girls who "did it" before marriage wish they waited...don't be one of them.you risk STDs and/or pregnancy...and NO contraceptive is 100% effective.
Just remember its your choice and make sure that before you choose to have sex with ANY guy that he gets or is tested and make sure that u use a condom because i don't wanna see a question in a month asking if you could be pregnant.
2006-07-23 16:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should only have sex if YOU want to.
There are too many risks involved.
Even when using protection, pregnancy can occur and infections can be spread. (herpes can be passed from oral sex, HPV which causes cervical cancer in women can be spread from skin to skin contact around the area protected by a condom, etc...)
If you have any hesitation or doubts, and you have enough self control, then it's best to wait.
2006-07-23 16:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you are a virgin?
Don't do anything you don't want to. It isn't right for your boyfriend to rush you into anything. But it's all up to you. But think about this- if you want to have sex, you must also be ready to get pregnant or possibly get an STD.
Remember, don't do ANYTHING you don't want to do.
2006-07-23 16:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. you should have sex with your boyfriend if YOU want to. Don't let him pressure you, that is when all the badsh-it happens. if you are comfortable with the idea, go for it. Just use a condom, because i don't wanna see a question in a month asking if you could be pregnant.
2006-07-23 16:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Wait until marriage. If he breaks up with you because you won't have sex with him then he really didn't care about you in the first place. He needs to respect you and if he wants you to have sex with him then he obviously doesn't care about you or your body.
2006-07-23 15:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're asking, no. It's obvious that you are uncertain, and I get the feeling you are too young. Wait until you are married and committed to someone before taking this BIG step. You will NOT regret it.
2006-07-23 15:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Rich B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex when YOU are ready to. Be sure you are prepared for any repurcussions as a result, and most importantly BE PROTECTED. The pill is not enough. Please use a condom. Although not 100%, it can help prevent many sexually transmitted diseases.
2006-07-23 15:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by butterflies5082 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO definitely not!!! he wants it but then he's gonna hate u, and u might possibly known as a s**t or whore or any of the other stupid names guys give to girls. DON'T do it until ur in a very serious relationship or married!!!
2006-07-23 16:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by KaiilaSoap--♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should if he wanna have sex just let him u don't have 2 do it all the time wit him now just do it 2 weeks after
2006-07-27 04:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋