I know a few men, most freshly married or engaged who relentlessly pursue SINGLE women. Cheating does not 'just happen' for these guys, it is sought with a vengence yet they claim they are happy. Can that be?
2006-07-23 15:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by Luscious Litigator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it can't be if they are happily married then they would not be looking. Don't allow fools to fool you.
2006-07-23 15:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Women do it too. I use to blame just men, but now I am in the category that you speak of, so I will try and explain why I do what I do. I am engaged and very much in love with the guy but, there is an excitment there. With your other half sex is safe. Not boring but just safe, when you go outside of the relationship, it is reckless and it is a rush. Cheating NEVER just happen. Stumbling over a block that just happens. You look for something and then you find it. Really it has nothing to do with love. WHen you do it, you never put that person in the same category as your love. The sex really does not have to be good, it is just the adrenaline rush. FYI, when they did a survey that a friend showed me. They asked 100 women have they ever cheated or had someone on the side, A staggering 83% admitted that they did and only 65% of men.
2006-07-23 15:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love these ambigous statements like "when do men cheat?"
NOT all men cheat.
You should ask "Why did my man cheat?"
Ive never cheated on any of my gfs wheather i was a week or year long relationship and no im not a teenager.
2006-07-23 15:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are cheating then they are not happy or satisfied in their relationship... If they say different they are full of it..
2006-07-24 12:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are insecure and have the need to feed their little egos. Not all men are this way. Wait till it happens to them.
2006-07-23 15:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN IN GENERAL...BUT NOT ALL OF THEM...are professional liers.....they cheat just cz the fun on it...(means sex), and probably are telling to the lover..they are so UNHAPPY in their marriage...and they wish they knew this perso before....liers.
2006-07-23 18:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ritamorales. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would someone cheat if they were satisfied?
2006-07-23 15:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by cawecm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some people can get away with it, they will try to have their cake and eat it too
2006-07-24 02:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a freak , don't let me catch hI'm im my city ,
2006-07-23 15:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋