I have no friends. Not because I am mean...but I just don't. How can I fix this?

Answer 1

you cannot fix this problem in this lifetime

I am sorry for your life

Answer 2

There's probably something you don't even realize. It really depends on a lot of things, but what the others said is not true. Anyone can have friends and someone who doesn't may just be shy or doing something unconsiously to give off "stay away" signals." Are you shy or extremely talkative? How do you approach people? Like I said that's really not enough info because everyone's different. But if you want to talk, my email is [e-mail]. I can't promise anything because I'm not trained in psychology, but i'd love to try and help.

Answer 3

It sucks, I know. But it is possible to escape, if only for a moment.
Join a club with people who share an interest (or, if there isn't one around, start a new one). If you have a sibling, see if you could hang out with them, preferably if they're just a little older (i.e., <2 year difference).
If all else fails, be a little more sociable. It's a bit scary to put yourself out there at first, but if the right people are around, you should find yourself some pals in no time.
Please, though, remember to be yourself. Nobody really wants a fake friend.

Answer 4

Well, first you should make sure that you are not an offensive person. You might not think you are, but you might be. You should also try to have friendly conversations in places like the grocery store, the bank, school, and work. Try to be more open but not too open because people might think you are weird. Have faith. Anyone can make friends.

Answer 5

Well.......if you want friends then you just show yourself to be friendly! Join some group in your school and be an active part of it. Get involved in some sport or competition that you enjoy. Just put yourself out to be a part of something and I am sure you will find friends.

Answer 6

Treat people the way you would want to be treated yourself.
Think before you speak.
If you cant say something nice dont say anything at all.
Put yourself in their shoes and try to understand how they feel when you are mean to them.
Be kind to others and others will be kind in return.
Last of all..Karma will come around show you what mean is!

Remember what goes around comes and besides that.mean people are bullys and bullys are NOT attractive..So be nice to others and you'll get some friends.

Answer 7

don't pay any mind to the answers that don't give you any real advice. i've been in your shoes. you're probably a little shy, right? me too. i've been called anti-social by people that didn't know me, that's how shy i was. i just couldn't talk to people. but anyway, as you get older you learn to be a little more outgoing and social. just try to find one friend and it'll grow from there. good luck. don't give up.

Answer 8

oh my word don't listen to any of those first like however that were absolute jerks to you! i wonder if they have any friends! its weird how ppl can be so mean and have friends and ppl that are so nice don't have many. well my thought is that the ppl that are nice don't really come out of their shell sorto say. where mean ppl are just mean to everyone and if ur not there friend then they are jerks. be yourself and talk to ppl. they will like you for who you are. find ppl that are like you my email is [e-mail] if you ever need someone to talk to im always here! just email me and ill talk. hope everything works out for yoU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! member your special no matter what ppl say!!!!!!

Answer 9

Instead of being quiet when others are talking, join in the converstaion. That will let them know that you are interested in communicating with them. Don't be shy, it works.

Answer 10

Don't write questions like why don't I have friends and write anyone want to be friends... you might get some positive answsers.