ok we dated for 5 months and we broke up and all i have done is miss him & he was really mean to me when we were over and i still wanted him back but my bestfriend is telling me not to date him and stuff and idk what to do b/c i love him and dont wanna lose him but he wants me to have sex with him but im still not sure if im ready yet but i dont wanna lose him & i was told by a person who gossips a lot that he cheated on his ex but idk if its true so what do i do PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-07-23 14:49:15 · 6 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're in a difficult situation.
Closure is always important but always so difficult. You love him, or think you do, because of all the unanswered issues that he left you with. Why didn't he respect my wishes? I was faithful and told him so, I loved him . . . I would do anything for him, etc.
You thought he was on the same page and all of a sudden he's going off the deep end saying terrible things, making you doubt what you thought he felt for you . . . these things are all confusing to you and you're hung up over it. The feelings you feel are real, you want him back to get answers.
I really believe the odd thing about this is that you may now be attracted to individuals like this in the future just to try and gind the answers you crave from your current situation . . .
2006-07-23 15:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all he wants you for is sex, dont chase after him. Matter fact dont chase after him at all. That is probably what he wants you to do because then he is thinking to himself that he has you wrapped right around his little finger and that you arent going anywhere any time soon. Also if you arent ready to have sex, dont do it just to please him because you will ponder on it later and regret it. Dont do something that will make you feel dumb later down the road and im not calling you dumb. Let time take its course. Things will work out for the better and not the worse if you just let things blow with the wind.
2006-07-23 22:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same exact problem. it took a while for me to get over him but i did and now im in a much happier relationship. since he treated u badly whenever you guys broke up, that means he DOESNT LOVE U!! you dont deserve any treatment like that from any guy. so be strong and dont go back to him, u deserve a much better guy. and he shouldnt be pressuring u to have sex when u dont want to, regardless if u dont want to lose him or not, he shouldnt push you. and for future reference, if u have any doubt about having sex that means youre not ready. the pain and heartache will go away and youll find a much better guy who treats u like a princess because every girl deserves that.
2006-07-23 22:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go back with him your relatioship with him will not improve. If he was mean to you then, he will be mean to you now.
Go find someone else who will not be mean to you and not use you. Someone that will show you respect for who you are.
2006-07-23 21:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase after him! let him crawl back to you! only have sex if your ready & use protection!...but it sounds like to me he dosn't really care for you, if he's mean to you. right??
2006-07-23 21:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by HotBarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Grow up ,go jerk off
2006-07-23 22:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋