My mom is going out with her dad. She lived with us and then decided to move with her mom. She was the closest person to me ever, she was the person that meant the most to me in the whole world. I love her so much. I'm really sad that she moved. She moved 10 hours away, too. Instead of crying, what should I do to keep my mind of of it?
2006-07-23 14:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by gerardsgrl101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Losing someone close takes time to overcome. At least, in your case, they simply moved away, rather than having passed away. So at least, you can call and talk with her from time to time, until you feel secure enough to move on with your life.
2006-07-23 14:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you can still keep in contact with her can't you?? E-mail her? Write her? If the situation is such that you can't do this than give yourself some time to get over this. Time heals all hurts. When you feel that you are ready to go on then channel your mind and energies toward making friends and helping people out that are needy so your mind is taken off yourself and on to others and their needs.
Take up a hobby of some sort or join some group thing that you like. You whole world has not come to an end you know! You still have a lot of life to live and to make someone happy so go and do it!
2006-07-23 15:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is good therapy. Feel free to have a good cry, then find something to do, preferably for others, to help you get through this.
I can tell you, this is sad, it makes me want to cry with you. It has to feel much like a father losing his kids in divorce,and I went through that. I think I do understand what you are going through.
Don't forget her. Send her cards on her birthday and so forth, and tell her how much you love her, just like you told us.
If you are male, do think about the possibility that she thinks you are in love with her, instead of just loving her. Let her know that is not the case, so she doesn't worry about that sort of thing.
2006-07-23 14:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really hurtful. I'm sorry. I think you should e-mail her every day or write to her and keep in contact. Tell her you miss her. Maybe she will write back and you can still see her whenever she visits her Dad. Instead of crying, concentrate on your friends and activities. Things will feel better in awhile.
2006-07-23 14:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st off you might want to tell her how important she is to you. you can also look for another person with the same type of personality as her to try and have someone close by you thats kinda like her. i've lost my best friend too before its hard but it will pass and you will be blessed and you will get through it! good luck!
2006-07-23 14:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by pease.love.crunkkk :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with things that make you happy...if all else fails, have a good cry, or talk to someone about it *nothing wrong with that*... doesn't she have email, or a phone...you could always stay in touch.
2006-07-23 14:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by xSarahx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is going to take a while but i think u should just get to know new people or get a job or sports something that will help u forget
2006-07-23 14:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by andrea_lara92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a sport
2006-07-23 14:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by hlcutie_9469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she gone but you have wonderful memory's to hold on to and keep never lose contact ever
2006-07-23 14:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by terri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HER, DO SOME OF THE THINGS U USED 2 DO 2GETHER,
SO SHE MAY NOT B W/ U,
BUT U WILL REMEMBERTHE GREAT FUN U HAD WHEN U WERE 2GETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CHEER-UP..............
2006-07-23 14:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by bobby-bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋